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    Default VI: Female Love prospect for Male IEI

    I am crazy into this girl I met online. We've only known each other a week, but we've spent hours talking online, on the phone, and we text each other constantly. Our kids are named, our rings are picked out, and we share the same dream. I know she's not another IEI, I've been down that road many, many times. I could go on, but I'd rather see what you come up with. She has taken a socionics test, but I'm not sure I agree with it.

    Edit: I had them hosted since her profile was set to private




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    Quote Originally Posted by MySpace
    My shadow wou..'s profile is set to private.
    This user must add you as a friend to see his/her photos.
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    “Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”

    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly
    You've done yourself a huge favor developmentally by mustering the balls to do something really fucking scary... in about the most vulnerable situation possible.

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    Anyone know a site I could use to host the picture so that I could just insert it directly into my post?
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    “Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”

    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly
    You've done yourself a huge favor developmentally by mustering the balls to do something really fucking scary... in about the most vulnerable situation possible.

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    or www.imageox.com, so you can delete the images after a while.
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    Thanks, you can just view them directly, obviously.

    Is this a good match?
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    uh. i have no idea what her type is. somehow i doubt she's SLE, but maybe that doesn't really matter to you?
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    I don't think she's SLE. I have been with one, and this is better. I'm way more comfortable with this one. I identify with her, but she's definitely got a lot going on that's different from me.

    She is very attracted to my

    Do the hints help?
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    well she looks ethical to me and has that introspective look to her.
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    ;alkdfja;sldkjf;alsdkfja;sldfkj;
    maybe a saint is just a dead prick with a good publicist
    maybe tommorow's statues are insecure without their foes
    go ask the frog what the scorpion knows

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    Can you tell us about her? Or maybe the kinds of exchanges you two typically have?
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    I just saw this thread had 10 views and 9 replies and thought, hey, 10/11.

    btw maybe ISFp. There's very little information and I don't really trust VI'ing but if she was extroverted she probably wouldn't be on a computer.
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    Quote Originally Posted by misutii View Post
    There's very little information and I don't really trust VI'ing but if she was extroverted she probably wouldn't be on a computer.
    ?? lol
    maybe a saint is just a dead prick with a good publicist
    maybe tommorow's statues are insecure without their foes
    go ask the frog what the scorpion knows

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    Allie the Gods of probability are jealous Gods and they will have their vengeance, in this life or the next.
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    I met her on hotornot.com. She said she saw my picture, and absolutely had to get to know me. After an initial exchange of pleasantries, we became myspace friends, where I found out she is going to school for nursing and wants to set up a clinic in Uganda. I am a Government major, and I want to work in international development, with a focus on Africa.

    We talked on yahoo messenger about our dreams for hours, and by the end of the conversation we felt wicked connected, and had decided that we were completely through with everyone else besides each other. Then, we talked on the phone all night about our life stories. I have been with my dual before, but she is by far the easiest person for me to talk to ever. I told her everything, even the not so flattering stuff, like about the time I drank so much Goldschlager I passed out and pissed myself with my iPod in my pocket.

    We both feel compelled to help those who struggle with the most extreme forms of poverty. I could tell on the phone that she was enthralled with my Ni, and I could tell I was attracted to something about her which is a weakness for me.

    We spend a lot of time trading romantic pledges, and both of us are convinced that this is going to be an eternal victory. I can not imagine being so psyched about a person.

    If she was typed correctly with the simple online test, we shouldn't really have the greatest relationship. I've been friends with girls of that type, and I think she is something way different.
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    You are very gung-ho about this girl joseph. I truly hope she and you work out eventually.
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    Quote Originally Posted by joseph View Post
    like about the time I drank so much Goldschlager I passed out and pissed myself with my iPod in my pocket.
    ahahahahahahaha. i just laughed so hard.
    well, i peed in a public hallway once if it makes you feel any better.
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    Quote Originally Posted by misutii View Post
    Allie the Gods of probability are jealous Gods and they will have their vengeance, in this life or the next.
    EXTROVERTS DO NOT USE COMPUTERS
    maybe a saint is just a dead prick with a good publicist
    maybe tommorow's statues are insecure without their foes
    go ask the frog what the scorpion knows

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    well, i peed in a public hallway once if it makes you feel any better.
    gah you people are gross.
    maybe a saint is just a dead prick with a good publicist
    maybe tommorow's statues are insecure without their foes
    go ask the frog what the scorpion knows

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    From her pictures she reminded me a little of calenwen, who's ESI.

    It'd help if you told us a little about her.
    Quote Originally Posted by jxrtes View Post
    betas should be kept in zoos for children to stare and throw pop corn at.

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    Besides what I went on about earlier, I can definitely say that our interactions are heavy on romance, but it seems like a real connection.

    When I say something that expresses myself well, she tends to say "i like the way you think" in awe. I don't detect that she has strong or conscious Ni, but I definitely don't miss it. She definitely draws me out (but you would think that any type would draw out an INFp)
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    Actually, she could be another IEI, but I cannot verify this at all.
    Quote Originally Posted by jxrtes View Post
    betas should be kept in zoos for children to stare and throw pop corn at.

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    i did think she looked possibly IEI. The other choices were SEI and...maybe....ILI.
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    I've dated a lot of female IEIs.

    I don't detect conscious Ni in her.

    Latest text "Same here...its like i don't need anything else bc i have you can't wait til next xmas together XoXo Mary"

    OH! and how about the Mary & Joseph thing? She makes me feel like we could birth a God.
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    lol mary and joseph, how nice.
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    hmmm. do you think she could be SEE?
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    Ah, Semi-Duals. That could actually make a lot of sense. We have the strongest connection i could imagine considering we are 1064 miles away. Definitely passionate.

    Any idea what kind of problems we might come up against if that is the case?
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    i know a few semi-dual couples. they got along really well, except for when they lived with each other. if duals (and illusionaries) are therapeutic, then semi-duals (and contraries) are not...
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    I feel like if I was living with her, I would man-up and not pull some of the crap IEIs are known for. (Not taking care of business...)

    I dunno. I'm not comfortable in Duality relationships.
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    hmmm.
    what did she test as? and what test was it?
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    She tested as ISFj. She seemed extraverted to me, but I thought I might have been picking up on her "j" and "s+f."

    http://www.socionics.us/tests/1/0.htm
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    uhh. i just took that and came out as ILI.
    the socionics.com test has given me fairly good results with people. maybe ask her to take that?
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    Will do.

    With that test discredited, I am almost positive she is my semi-dual. Any advice? I'm marrying this girl.
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    I don't know enough about semi-dual relations, but I think they're fairly up there in terms of compatibility. You'd probably each just over-develop your HA's to compensate for each other's PoLR.
    When are you meeting?
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    The last week in January I am flying up there.

    I was given a gold Krugerrand by a friend of my stepdad when he married my mom. Gold is high right now, so I'm selling it. We are going to go skydiving. Sex has been promised too.
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    let us know how it goes.
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    wow, sounds like a deep connection there. Hope it works out the way you two are wanting. (on a purely vi basis, I was wanting to put her as IEI or possibly EIE, but not really).

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    well, if she promised you sex, she must be your dual!
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    Quote Originally Posted by joseph View Post
    She tested as ISFj. She seemed extraverted to me, but I thought I might have been picking up on her "j" and "s+f."

    http://www.socionics.us/tests/1/0.htm
    Interesting because ESI (ISFj) was my first immediate thought for her.

    If she is ISFj it shouldn't be too much of a problem. Relationships of benefit can work out quite well, even though it's kind of like a one-side duality.
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    Quote Originally Posted by joseph View Post
    Sex has been promised too.
    lol.

    thanks for letting us all in on that.
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