Originally Posted by
Cheesy
I started working with another girl who's probably SEE (Se subtype) and we are in deep conflict. I thought this would help me determine once and for all what my real type is.
She sort of tries to screw me over at times but the trouble starts when I refuse to let her do that. She's been at this office for a year and thinks she owns it. She's the sort of girl that orders people around, does whatever she feels like doing, doesn't think before she says something, is in absolute need to dominate her environment and to be adored by the people around her. I really can't stand her attitude anymore and we get into serious conflict. Thing is, there comes a time when you have to do things not because you want to but because there is no other choice. She's trying to screw me over and while I could sit there and take it to not face the battle, I feel that it's not even a choice I can make anymore. I fight with her and try to be assertive with her but it always ends up being aggressive, either way I'm pretty determined that I have to stand up for myself even if it means doing things I'm uncomfortable doing like getting into confrontations. As far as our relationship - if she wasn't screwing me over with her Se I'd like her much more. For the mean time I can't stand her. So, is this EII or IEE?