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    Default Sex Addict - Co Dependent; Love Addict - Avoidant

    http://healthymind.com/s-relationships.html

    Sex Addicts: ESTP, ESFP, ENTJ, ESTJ
    CoDependents: ISFJ, INFJ, INFP, INTP

    Love Addicts: ENFJ, ESFJ, ENFP, ENTP
    Avoidants: ISFP, INTJ, ISTP, ISTJ

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    Could lead to some nasty consequences. I know so, I heard it on the magic schoolbus.

    "Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."

    - Voltaire

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    You are wrong about the types and correlations
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    Quote Originally Posted by betterthandead View Post
    http://healthymind.com/s-relationships.html

    Sex Addicts: ESTP, ESFP, ENTJ, ESTJ
    CoDependents: ISFJ, INFJ, INFP, INTP

    Love Addicts: ENFJ, ESFJ, ENFP, ENTP
    Avoidants: ISFP, INTJ, ISTP, ISTJ
    I don't know how accurate this for all the types, but I can say that it has been true of my own experiences with dating an ESTj. Even though we were duals, it was a somewhat difficult and painful relationship because of his sexual addiction and my codependency. However, I feel that the duality almost forced both of us to look at our own lives and helped us to grow and overcome those things. I feel that it was pretty therapeutic for the ESTj, although I definitely don't recommend dating a dual who is a sex addict (or any of the other three listed above) because you have to go through a lot of struggles before achieving emotional health in your relationship.

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    Avoidants: ISFP, INTJ, ISTP, ISTJ
    lol..no. Just..no.

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    What about this one?

    Sex addicts Sp
    codependent Np

    Love addict Sj
    Avoidant Nj
    ILE "Searcher"
    Socionics: ENTp
    DCNH: Dominant --> perhaps Normalizing
    Enneagram: 7w6 "Enthusiast"
    MBTI: ENTJ "Field Marshall" or ENTP "Inventor"
    Astrological sign: Aquarius

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1981slater View Post
    What about this one?

    Sex addicts Sp
    codependent Np

    Love addict Sj
    Avoidant Nj
    Much, much better

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    no, not even.
    there is no overwhelming correlation with type
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    no correlation
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    These aren't types, these are issues.

    But in any case. It's extremely unlikely that duals would make pairs, that would just increase the problem rather than help to alleviate it.
    ...the human race will disappear. Other races will appear and disappear in turn. The sky will become icy and void, pierced by the feeble light of half-dead stars. Which will also disappear. Everything will disappear. And what human beings do is just as free of sense as the free motion of elementary particles. Good, evil, morality, feelings? Pure 'Victorian fictions'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Warlord View Post
    These aren't types, these are issues.
    I like this best so far.

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    Heh. As much as I want to fight this, this is true for me. It's a harsh wake-up call. I attract too many druggies/addicts exactly for these reasons.

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    I think a better name for this thread would have been "Sex Addicts- STD prone; Love Addict- Broken Heart prone."
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    Hello, I am Simon and I'm a sex addict.
    Looking for an Archnemesis. Willing applicants contact via PM.

    ENFp - Fi 7w6 sp/sx
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    The Einstein ENTp

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    I don't feel comfortable mocking sex addicts; abstinence is their only cure.
    Someone should light a candle for these modern day saints.
    EII; E6(w5)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Warlord View Post
    These aren't types, these are issues.

    But in any case. It's extremely unlikely that duals would make pairs, that would just increase the problem rather than help to alleviate it.
    good point
    Quote Originally Posted by Ssmall View Post
    Hello, I am Simon and I'm a sex addict.
    *group replies in monotone* Welcome Simon. Would you like to share your story?
    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    I don't feel comfortable mocking sex addicts; abstinence is their only cure.
    Someone should light a candle for these modern day saints.
    you're the saint, though I don't expect you to take credit. Modesty is one of the 10 commandments for being a saint.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sirena View Post
    you're the saint, though I don't expect you to take credit. Modesty is one of the 10 commandments for being a saint.
    I would thank you, but that would be acknowledging your compliment. So, instead, I will just stare blankly into space.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    I will just stare blankly into space.
    Are you sure your not IEI???
    Looking for an Archnemesis. Willing applicants contact via PM.

    ENFp - Fi 7w6 sp/sx
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ssmall View Post
    Are you sure your not IEI???
    Excellent point. I shall reconsider.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    I would thank you, but that would be acknowledging your compliment. So, instead, I will just stare blankly into space.
    why not bake me some cookies? aww feels good to help a friend. *pats herself on the back*

    wow, we've totally derailed this thread. well done!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sirena View Post
    why not bake me some cookies? aww feels good to help a friend. *pats herself on the back*
    good idea. will do.

    wow, we've totally derailed this thread. well done!
    i think some threads are meant to be derailed.
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    Sometimes I wonder what people are searching for when they come across pages like that.
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