Which relationship do you think is better for a living situation such as roommates - illusionary or activity relations? I know that activity relations aren't really ideal for living situations but I'm not sure if illusionary relations are necessarily better since they are different quadras. More specifically, I have two potential roommates. One is ESFj and one is ISTp (i am INFj). I'm not sure which one would be better in the long run, although I am leaning towards ESFj. I would really appreciate any thoughts or advice!