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    Default Which ENFj "subtype" am I? And what enneagram?

    I'm not the loud kind of ENFj. I've been mistaken for INFp before because of that, by the people in NY. I thought that would make me Ni subtype, but according to the descriptions on wikisocion I'm more like the Ethical subtype. I'm not confident in anything I do. All the ENFj's I met seem more outgoing and appear to have the ability to be good public speakers. I get very self-concious when I participate in class discussions. At work I'm not really confident when I talk to my managers but I'm very comfortable with the customers.




    For the Enneagram: My friend says I'm a 6. She thinks I'm that because I'm always worried my health. I'm very hesitant with everything I do. I need to learn how to relax. When I read the enneagram descriptions in one book I sounded like a four.
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    Hmmm i dont know you much but i do know the many variation of EIE. if I have to take a guess it would be FE-ENFj, as to enneagram you might be an 4wing3.
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    I dunno, some of the lack of confidence could be due to your age. I've become way more outgoing in my 30s than I was in my teens and 20s. You could be E-6 or E-4. have you read any enneagram books? which emotion is more familiar and more of a driving force in your life--envy or fear?
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    I know two EIE 6s and an EIE 4, the 4 is much more nervous, self-concious though the 6s have this nervous air about them too.. even though they can all be very in your face, talkative, fun, showy... lalala! Interestingly I find the 4 to be the most arrogant, I think its because at the core she is so very very insecure, she has built up that arrogance to counteract it.

    So I would say a 6 or a 4. Can you take a test online?

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    Your brief impression reminded me of another ENFj I know. I would have to say ENFj-Ni

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    @Jimbean: I remember you telling me that at the seminar. I've thought I was Ni.
    And I've read a couple of things and I'm still indecisive about my enneagram type. Idk is there a good test online?
    ENFj Ni subtype 3w4
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