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    Default How to convey no interest to SLE/ESTp?

    umm, how do I let an estp know that I'm not interested in her ? because there is lot of an underlying pressure, and well honestly its very powerful. I've hinted about it but really its still there - advice? It'll be difficult to keep saying no..how do I make them back off gently..

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    Have sex with her once.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JuJu View Post
    Have sex with her once.
    Problem with me is that they always come back for more.

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    riight.

    ..?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ali View Post
    umm, how do I let an estp know that I'm not interested in her ? because there is lot of an underlying pressure, and well honestly its very powerful. I've hinted about it but really its still there - advice? It'll be difficult to keep saying no..how do I make them back off gently..
    Just tell her directly. She'll respect that.
    4w3-5w6-8w7

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    Quote Originally Posted by strrrng View Post
    Just tell her directly. She'll respect that.
    yes, I agree. And it keeps things from getting more and more awkward.
    IEI-Fe 4w3

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    I thought Allie made this thread. I was going to say "just say 'I'm not a lesbian'".

    Then I realised the slight discrepancy on the name.
    Ideas don't determine who's right. Power determines who's right. And I have the power. So I'm right.

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    get a restraining order

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    Quote Originally Posted by Allie View Post
    Lesbians are never into me for some reason.
    Gaydar. They know you're not lesbian.
    Ideas don't determine who's right. Power determines who's right. And I have the power. So I'm right.

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    Quote Originally Posted by strrrng View Post
    Just tell her directly. She'll respect that.
    the only way.

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