Results 1 to 36 of 36

Thread: What do ESFjs want in a relationship/their partner?

Hybrid View

  1. #1
    diljs's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2007
    Posts
    348
    Mentioned
    1 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default What do ESFjs want in a relationship/their partner?

    Similar to the ILE/SEI threads we have, what do ESFjs want from a relationship?

    What do you look for in a partner?
    How do things start?
    How does the relationship progress?
    Who shows initiative at which points?

    Since there don't seem to be a lot of ESFjs here, those that know/have observed can comment as well.

    Someone should also post the obligatory LII/ESE dual relationship description.
    ILE - Ti.

  2. #2
    diljs's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2007
    Posts
    348
    Mentioned
    1 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    so it seems esfjs do not like romance.
    ILE - Ti.

  3. #3
    Snomunegot munenori2's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2007
    Location
    Kansas
    TIM
    Introvert sp/sx
    Posts
    7,742
    Mentioned
    34 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by diljs View Post
    so it seems esfjs do not like romance.
    They're probably all out getting laid.
    Moonlight will fall
    Winter will end
    Harvest will come
    Your heart will mend

  4. #4
    diljs's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2007
    Posts
    348
    Mentioned
    1 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by munenori2 View Post
    They're probably all out getting laid.
    True, but keep in mind "getting laid" for an ESFj means making someone a tasty dinner and then cleaning up.
    ILE - Ti.

  5. #5

    Join Date
    May 2006
    Posts
    5,086
    Mentioned
    7 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by diljs View Post
    True, but keep in mind "getting laid" for an ESFj means making someone a tasty dinner and then cleaning up.
    Hmmm, no.

  6. #6
    I had words here once, but I didn't feed them Khola aka Bee's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2007
    TIM
    Meat Popsicle
    Posts
    3,566
    Mentioned
    4 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    No that's SEI, silly.


    Silly rabbit
    Hello, my name is Bee. Pleased to meet you .



  7. #7
    Humanist Beautiful sky's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2009
    Location
    EII land
    TIM
    EII INFj
    Posts
    26,935
    Mentioned
    699 Post(s)
    Tagged
    6 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by diljs View Post
    True, but keep in mind "getting laid" for an ESFj means making someone a tasty dinner and then cleaning up.
    WTh? What planet are you from? ESFj romance is take them out to a nice place to eat.
    -
    Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
    Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

  8. #8
    Creepy-Snaps

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Khola View Post
    I'm currently busy dating diljs
    Have fun!

    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    WTh? What planet are you from? ESFj romance is take them out to a nice place to eat.
    Yes, I think we are from a different planet than you.

  9. #9
    Glorious Member mu4's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2007
    Location
    Mind
    Posts
    8,174
    Mentioned
    759 Post(s)
    Tagged
    3 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    WTh? What planet are you from? ESFj romance is take them out to a nice place to eat.
    Actually this isn't that far off from the truth. All I do with ESFj's is go to dinner with them and all my friends. All he does in relationship is take them to restaurants and things like that.

    He does this ~ 6 times a week with different people each day of the week. Generally in a relationship the girls gets 2 days. The other 4 days are for his friends and ex-girlfriends....

  10. #10
    Banned
    Join Date
    Apr 2009
    TIM
    LSE
    Posts
    17,948
    Mentioned
    162 Post(s)
    Tagged
    1 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by diljs View Post
    what do ESFjs want from a relationship?
    All of the ESFjs I didn't type want a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow.

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •