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    Default Recomendations for IEI/INFp (Gulenko)

    As promised to Ali. Point out any mistakes or sentences you did not understand and I will improve them. Enjoy.

    Lyric (Esenin, INFP)

    Your strong side is well developed intuition which allows you to obtain lessons from the past in order to secure the future.

    You look at future with optimism. You are dreamy, romantic essence. Beauty in art and in life is close to your heart. Your creative nature can't stand grayness and standards. You bring elements of elegance and originality to any matter.

    You understand other people moods, have a good sense of humor, with its help you lift the spirits of yourself and others. You possess a rich world of various feelings and you are dependent in many cases from the nuances of your emotional state. You are able to elevate feelings and inclined to idolise people. You bring festivity and elevation to the world around you.

    Your major problem lies in the fact you have a hard time forcing yourself to take on daily, uninteresting issues, which have a material element to it. You are unable to manage household economy, you have a difficulty to resist the temptation of acquiring beautiful things with the cost that exceeds the limits of your budget. Carefully check that you do not spend money on useless trinkets: you put yourself at risk to suffer financially.

    Show more restrain in spending so you wont put yourself in humiliating position when you have to pay your debts in all kinds of means, up to sale of things. Don't live on the basis of your ambitious aspirations and illusions towards "easy life", do not compromise ethics and morals in favour of getting rid of daily troubles.

    Another of your problems lies in the fact that you are not inclined to hide your worries and physical state to others. By this you tire people and cause to doubt the sincerity of your worries. Abstain from superfluous claims to other people and complaints about the absence of proper concern in your respect. In order to win the attention of close people try to moderate a certain capriciousness of your character.

    Show more generosity and active concern about people. Try to earn good relationships towards you with diligent and active participation in common causes and under no circumstances give empty promises. Don't spend free time in daydreaming, barren emotional discussions and secret worries. If you spend more of your free time in real matters then your chances of successful life increases significantly.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ssmall View Post
    Another of your problems lies in the fact that you are not inclined to hide your worries and physical state to others. By this you tire people and cause to doubt the sincerity of your worries. Abstain from superfluous claims from other people and complaints about the absence of proper concern in your respect. In order to win the attention of close people try to moderate a certain capriciousness of your character.
    Hrmmm. I guess I do sometimes evince a certain quality of melodrama.

    Remarkable how these suggestions could totally apply to E4s as well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ssmall View Post
    Show more generosity and active concern about people. Try to earn good relationships towards you with diligent and active participation in common causes and under no circumstances give empty promises. Don't spend free time in daydreaming, barren emotional discussions and secret worries. If you spend more of your free time in real matters then your chances of successful life increases significantly.
    HAHA This was written specifically for me, I'm afraid.
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    Remarkable how these suggestions could totally apply to E4s as well.
    ditto

    Abstain from superfluous claims from other people
    is that by other people or to other people

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ali View Post
    ditto


    is that by other people or to other people
    To other people, fixed. Thanks.

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    Wow, thank you! This is good stuff =)

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    In short:

    Stop dressing like a fag and go play ball with real boys.

    Sorry but no. I like playing barbies and being in my own little world too much. =p

    You're right though. Our confidence can only grow by participating in real things, even though our natural tendency is to dream of ideal worlds. We also earn other people's respect by participating in the real. With a little (or a lot) of effort, we can make people feel appropriately guilty if they treat others poorly without realizing it.

    I think the key is to tell the INFp it's not a big deal as everybody is making it out to be. Yes, if you don't even try- you will have a paranoid life and be in a looney bin all day. But at the time, get us more in the moment ... using , and we will like that very much. Whether it's doing an activity with us, or getting us to have sex, anything.

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