She conveyed her Ni dual seeking to me (without saying that it was Ni dual seeking), in the following words, more or less: "I don't reflect on things, I just do them. I like it when someone can help me reflect and look at the future outcomes of my actions; I like it when people bring that aspect out of me. Most explanations/ideas I come up with on the spot."
As for Ti polr: "I dislike having systems thrown at me. I feel uncertain about how to deal with them and trust what I see more than some explanation. It is as if once one piece doesn't fit, I feel that the whole system isn't going to work."
As per the "incessant Fe" she displays, see Fe demonstrative.