Hello again everyone. I tried translating the ESTJ in love but in some cases it was harder (im again confused what the hell is the contract part about, as in is it about contracts in general or marriage). Please point out the mistakes in grammar or incorrect sentence structure. Also point out the parts you did not understand. Well hope this will be of some use to you. Enjoy.
++added: see also Duality observations
ESTJ in LOVE: "Rely on me"
GENERAL CHARACTERISTICS: Their contribution to relationships is stability and structure. Usually they are reliable, sociable and optimistic. Due to their abilities
and thoroughness they can seem as impatient and sometimes even as incontinent. They have the gift of the gab (easily communicate) and they go through life with certainty that they are right and world will be better if the rest will agree with them.
FIRST IMPRESSION: Well mannered and respectful they come off as people who are self-controlling and capable of controlling the situation if needed. ESTJ's attract other people although they might be sharp and quick to say their opinion on any issue if they get even the slightest encouragement. They value smart people and consider themselves as smart.
DIALOGUE: ESTJ are good with words and it is easy to speak with them, they always find the right words. Initially friendly and interested but as the conversation goes on can show impatience and stubbornness. ESTJ have a strong need to be heard and influence others. They are accountable to themselves.
SEX and CLOSENESS: Closeness can be tangible and objective, if speaking in terms of logical promises and commitments. For ESTj providing for the family and stability that comes with it - sign of love. If you cant measure and predict closeness then it is possible that there is none. If it is there, you know it and you don't need to show it with unnecessary sentiments.
FINANCE: ESTJ are conservative but they are preoccupied with financial matters. They are good with planning for the long future. Leaning towards having money and saving them. Participate in charity if it is expected of them from social institutions (church, company, community, family). Very careful and avoids risks always looking for maximal security for the family.
CONFLICTS: This is a fact of life. Sense of responsibility includes in itself the need to complete what you started, this includes conflicts also. In other words, if you start a conflict you must end it, otherwise don't start it. Don't say insulting words if you can't face consequences.
OBLIGATIONS: This is for forever. They give their vows and keep them forever. If problems arise you can sleep in separate rooms, stop talking to each other but under no circumstances split up. ESTJ may prefer to immerse themselves into work, hobbies and other activities in an effort to avoid participating in a bad relationship. But from their inner point of view, vows are kept and that is the most important thing.
PARENTING: For ESTJ that is a never ending responsibility, taken as an integral part of life. They can intervene when children stray from the true course of life, work hard on their upbringing and can even renounce them if things go very badly. But all it takes is for their children appear at the door, as parents ESTJ will accept them because they are forever their children. This is their debt they take on themselves gladly.
CONTRACT: Another goal that can be measured and calculated. If you cant reach satisfaction it needs to change or revoke it. So the contract obliges but if you violate it then its up for grabs.
RELATIONSHIP ENDING: Relationship didn't end until its ended, but when they are finished, forget about it and live on. Relationships, just like everything else, can be measured and have its goals. Without them the relationship can't exist, without another person there is no need for those goals. Of course goals can change and need rethinking. That is just another fact of life.