How do you sexually approach a SLI? What scares them off, what don't they like, what DO they like...etc etc...?
Discussssssss.
Aaaaand in terms of affection, what do you they prefer etc....?
ISTps and sex
How do you sexually approach a SLI? What scares them off, what don't they like, what DO they like...etc etc...?
Discussssssss.
Aaaaand in terms of affection, what do you they prefer etc....?
SEE Unknown Subtype
6w7 sx/so
[21:29] hitta: idealism is just the gap between the thought of death
[21:29] hitta: and not dying
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They like to explore. And stronggives them the ability to know exactly how and where!
At least that's how it was explained to me once.
maybe a saint is just a dead prick with a good publicist
maybe tommorow's statues are insecure without their foes
go ask the frog what the scorpion knows
Will they like it if I bite them?
Will their strong Si tell me where and how? Or am I supposed to just guess and hope I get it right or else be at mercy to their wrath? Actually, that sounds like a fun time...SLI wrath....
Explore what? O_o
SEE Unknown Subtype
6w7 sx/so
[21:29] hitta: idealism is just the gap between the thought of death
[21:29] hitta: and not dying
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Are there any good descriptions of SLI/SEE mirage relations?
SEE Unknown Subtype
6w7 sx/so
[21:29] hitta: idealism is just the gap between the thought of death
[21:29] hitta: and not dying
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Khamelion, what are you up to? '-)
*scared*
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
I'm not up to anything!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just want answers!!!!
ive been conversing with a maybe SLI and i just need to know about them. i think ive dated a few too....
SEE Unknown Subtype
6w7 sx/so
[21:29] hitta: idealism is just the gap between the thought of death
[21:29] hitta: and not dying
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Just don't talk during sex. ex, "What do you want me to do to you". Scariness.
*Blushes*Originally Posted by Allie
They like to explore. And strong
At least that's how it was explained to me once.
Me too. What are you up to?
AGREE.
They like to be teased. They don't like to be asked questions. I don't think they mind talking if they aren't expected to think and respond.
It ain't what you don't know that gets you into trouble. It's what you know for sure that just ain't so.-Mark Twain
You can't wake a person who is pretending to be asleep.
To an extent, yes.
Yeah. I was in a relationship with someone who'd ask me all these odd questions at all the wrong times. I won't get graphic but how does that turn people on? After he'd say some of that stuff, the mood was gone and I just busted out laughing. Complete mood killler. It's a physical act.They don't like to be asked questions. I don't think they mind talking if they aren't expected to think and respond.
and oh, last more than 2.5 minutes.
Your body, of course.
LIAR!
and be more than 2.5 inches?
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Listen to slacker mom.
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
oh yeah, that's always a plus
Ask my mom.
...
amen. same here.
IEI-Fe 4w3
wow. how come?
ILE
those who are easily shocked.....should be shocked more often
LOL
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Eh, I guess for me it switches from my primal, instinctual actions to more frontal lobe stuff, and that shift for one reason or another pisses me off.
"What, I have to think about forming words now? how about these words: 'make me a fucking sandwhich"
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
Yeah, good question: how do you come?
“I have never tried that before, so I think I should definitely be able to do that.” --- Pippi Longstocking
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“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
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Last edited by Suomea; 09-28-2008 at 01:44 AM.
Suomea
im more likely to just do something than ask what is wanted. i get annoyed when someone asks me what i want them to do to me too, they should know what i want damnit!!!
all you SLI's better watch out!!! you might be the one im after!! bwahahahahaaaaaa
sounds good to me! teasing is one of my favorite things to do. im kind of the same way actually, not wanting to think and respond. i dont mind a laugh here and there though...i think its weird when guys get all turned off from a girl giggling or something.
two problems i dun hafta worry about
well, for a lot of people it's mental too...but that doesn't necessarily mean verbal too. but you could also argue that mental and physical are one in the same, since physical sensation trigger mental ones and vice versa. in any case, some people have emotions involved...and...i refuse to believe that all SLI's never involve emotions during sex >_>
ooOoooOoo haaaave at it!!
bwahahahaa...its only a half lie ;P
EWEWEWEWEWEWWWEEWEWEEWEWEWEWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW WWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
WUT?
lol, you would ask that
SEE Unknown Subtype
6w7 sx/so
[21:29] hitta: idealism is just the gap between the thought of death
[21:29] hitta: and not dying
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Doesn't matter how many exclamation marks you put there, it won't work :-)
But to get back to the question about their relations, I knew a SEE SLI couple, they got along very well in the beginning, but the relationship ended after about 4 months. I'm not quite sure what the reason for the ending was. The persons were both pretty young, so maybe not really serious or something like that...
hahaha and me thinks some of you are neglecting some possibilities in this question....Quote:
Originally Posted by blaze
wow. how come?
lol, you would ask that
ILE
those who are easily shocked.....should be shocked more often
you know what though? people can't read your mind!! and even though something may have felt good on multiple occasions in the past, it might not be what moves ya right now. this is why sex can kinda die out over time in a relationship.....because the people won't talk about it....and won't mix it up.....and won't fucking figure out a way to ask that is sexy and you know makes ya go go go....Quote:
Originally Posted by jessica
Just don't talk during sex. ex, "What do you want me to do to you". Scariness.
im more likely to just do something than ask what is wanted. i get annoyed when someone asks me what i want them to do to me too, they should know what i want damnit!!!
ILE
those who are easily shocked.....should be shocked more often
I don't know about Jessica, but I didn't mean, "Don't talk about or during sex, EVER!" Rather, don't ask a bunch of questions and/or have a running commentary on what's going on at the time. SLI's submit totally to the moment, and like LokiV said, talking can distract from that.
An SLI is taking in every sensation and reacting to it; there will be plenty of nonverbal ways to tell if what you're doing is being appreciated, as surely you well know. Those nonverbal cues - a change in breathing, a different movement, a look in the eyes, etc. - are what SLI's are paying attention to in their partner, which is probably the reason we assume that you [proverbial "you"] are as well.
yes yes yes.
IEI-Fe 4w3
That's exactly what I meant. I'm not a big fan of talking about sex either (irl) though. It's highly uncomfortable for me. Call me immature, dunno...I just don't like it. Less talk, more action.
It's just odd you'll be in the moment--dead silence-- and then WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO TO YOU??? comes out. Who actually answers that question with a straight face? Every emotion and feeling that had been building up is completely lost after that and um... get off me and let me go to sleep.
yes i hear you on this and i hadn't read Lokiv's response when i wrote that. you don't want to talk about sex during sex necessarily lol.
when i first read the question "what do you want me to do to you?" i guess i interpreted it differently. like, that's been said to me kind of wickedly and at the beginning of the act, to which i said "fuck my brains out please." and didn't really feel like it was a big deal knowwhatimean?
but on the other hand i could see if somebody's like expectantly looking at you and politely saying it i could see the meh factor LOL!!! like what are you supposed to answer, lessee please put your finger there and then and then and then....hahahaha
but talking about sex is sexy or it can be....just not at the moment you are doing it. when you're doing it ya just wanna do it not ponder it. but if couples don't talk about sex, like for women, as in i need foreplay please stop going right for it or you'll leave me in the dust, man these conversations are important to have!! that is if you ever want to come.
ILE
those who are easily shocked.....should be shocked more often
right. if things aren't going well, maybe a word or two could be said at another time about it. in a helpful, not critical way. lolyes i hear you on this and i hadn't read Lokiv's response when i wrote that. you don't want to talk about sex during sex necessarily lol.
when i first read the question "what do you want me to do to you?" i guess i interpreted it differently. like, that's been said to me kind of wickedly and at the beginning of the act, to which i said "fuck my brains out please." and didn't really feel like it was a big deal knowwhatimean?
but on the other hand i could see if somebody's like expectantly looking at you and politely saying it i could see the meh factor LOL!!! like what are you supposed to answer, lessee please put your finger there and then and then and then....hahahaha
but talking about sex is sexy or it can be....just not at the moment you are doing it. when you're doing it ya just wanna do it not ponder it. but if couples don't talk about sex, like for women, as in i need foreplay please stop going right for it or you'll leave me in the dust, man these conversations are important to have!! that is if you ever want to come.
IEI-Fe 4w3
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But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
MAKE IT GO AWAY GEORGE
SEE Unknown Subtype
6w7 sx/so
[21:29] hitta: idealism is just the gap between the thought of death
[21:29] hitta: and not dying
.
So, kelly, have you managed to ensare this lucky sli?
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
Come on firm and flirty, but not strong. Touch them frequently so they get the idea.
Insanity.What scares them off
Their partner being too fussy and finicky. Giving shit directions on what to do. Just shut up, sit back and let them find their groove.what don't they like
Pretty much anything.what DO they like
SLI/ISTp -- Te subtype
Also, I hate having to make the initiative. Nothing could be more uncomfortable. But something tells me SEE's don't have that problem
Thanks for the input, a thread that was actually pretty helpful
i undoubtedly would, but there is a distance issue that won't be remedied for a very long time. and by then who knows. at least i have this information for other SLI prospects.
lol nope, i got kinda spoiled by some SLE's recently but...i realized id RATHER made the initiative because they dont give a FUCK when YOU want them to or when you DONT want them to. annnoyingggg!!!!
SEE Unknown Subtype
6w7 sx/so
[21:29] hitta: idealism is just the gap between the thought of death
[21:29] hitta: and not dying
.
I need to find myself an SLI apparently :/
ILE
7w8 so/sp
Very busy with work. Only kind of around.
It's not apperent. It's obvious. Go, grab one. Now.
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
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