If an SLE was basically not making an attempt to understand you, would you like that more than if they were trying to connect in a meaningful way? If they came with more direct, "let's fuck" approach, would you approve of that more than if they attempted to get deep and personal with you psychologically? Or do you like this once in a while? You know what I mean, the guy that stands out because he attempts to understand you rather than just make passes at you. Or does this scenario simply bore you?