As promised, enjoy my fellow deltas. Please feel free to correct mistakes or rephrase the sentences for them to make more sense. If you did not understand some sentences, please say so so I could provide with a more clear translation.
++added: see also Duality observations
INFJ in LOVE: "Heart, mind and soul"
GENERAL CHARACTERISTICS: Driven by a rich imagination and a deep interest in others, they are the source of endless inspiration and joy for those they bump into. Their inner life is their driving force while a most probable weakness is their slowness with which they share their inner wealth. However, this weakness is paid back with sincerity and care for the spouse and children.
FIRST IMPRESSION: Kind-hearted and caring. They leave a sense of softness. They openly show their interest in others and the desire to be accepted and helpful in any situation. Although INFJ are very quiet, people like their company and they eagerly get back to them.
DIALOGUE: They best express themselves in writing. They have a talent for clear, convincing and impressive speech writing, always finding the right words. However this ability depends on if they have sufficient time for reflection. Otherwise they are going to be slow in expressing themselves.
SEX and CLOSENESS: This is a merge of heart, mind and soul. This is a devotion for significant other so two would become one. From INFJ point of view closeness constitutes itself in terms of sacrificing oneself for the needs of the loved one. Their inner inspiration achieves its completeness in actions, full of love and care, which carry a physical and tangible character.
FINANCE: Attention to details, precision and accuracy are their heavy cross (big weakness they have to bear with). They find it hard to find anything
inspirational in such a fussy thing as finance. As a result they usualy take bad care of finances. Quite often, being aware of their weakness, they can be conservative and cautious in money matters.
CONFLICTS: The word conflict itself and what it means can give INFJ the horrors. It seems as if they would rather face death itself than anything that
resembles a conflict. It contradicts to their nature and they are convinced that nothing good can come out of it. However when they inevitably need to face a conflict they do it unwillingly and with a heavy heart.
OBLIGATIONS: This is something deep, constant, eternal and ultimately the realisation of all the purposes and meaning in life. They are careful with
obligating themselves but if that happened there is no turning back. Due to the fact that INFJ's themselves are so decisive in carrying out their obligations they find it hard to forgive to their partners who carry out their obligations less than 110 per cent. They set high expectations towards himself and partners in life, demanding full devotion.
PARENTING: For an INFJ children is a realisation of meaning in life. Parental duty can second only to a spouse and God. For them it is an expression of the deepest meaning of human life. They channel their inspiration towards children. And children remember them as patient, gentle, kind-hearted and inspirational parents.
MARRIAGE: They feel a serious commitment to deepening and development of relations, so they see marriage as vital. INFJ convert their thoughts and vision towards this goal, which, if achieved, becomes a measure of achievement, reflecting energy invested into relationships.
RELATIONSHIP ENDING: Like other feeling types, INFJ's hold on to relationships long after it has ended, reflecting on how the situation could be changed. The feeling of guilt can motivate them to hold on to it, when it would be better for everyone to part ways. After shaking the feeling of guilt and accepting defeat, INFJ evaluate the relationship and as many other Judging types leave them behind and move on to new relationships.