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    Yeah, I've been waiting for that too.

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    What??? You're talking about moi??? You want to see my picture???

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    no if you're not b&d
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    I'm confused. Who does he mean then, because I get called b&d too cause of my name lol.

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    Mea, who do you think B&D is?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    Yeah, I've been waiting for that too.
    Stop waiting.
    Last edited by UDP; 08-09-2008 at 05:36 AM.
    Pre-2013 post are written with incomplete understanding.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    Mea, who do you think B&D is?
    bullets & doves.
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    Quote Originally Posted by UDP View Post
    Stop waiting.
    Stop talking to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    Stop talking to me.
    He actually edited his original reply to you. It was at first something about getting a life. I think he was scared of your response to that, just had to tell yah hahahaha it's so funny he edited it.


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    You sure got ezra there scarlett *thumbsup*

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    He must realize that anybody telling another person to 'get a life' when they're both on an online message board is beyond hypocritical.

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    "Oh, you'd rather be pestered for photos. Pardon me."


    I changed my response because I was considering whether or not it is something I wanted to say, as per the consequences. It seems a bout of quarreling with Ezra was inevitable, and yet, it is not. We both have a choice in the matter, as to how far it goes. In some other posts, I have acted in a retaliatory fashion, one that was pro-bickering.

    Here, I considered not bickering, when I changed it from "get a life"; I wrote "get a life" originally because I thought b&d was going to be pestered into presenting pictures - when of course that is what someone chooses to do on their own. Then I consulted a few people about ethics, and changed what I wrote. Perhaps the best thing to have said, in retrospect, would have been "B&D will post pictures when he wants to", nothing more.
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    lolll let's see some nude picz B&D
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    Thanks, UDP. Honestly, I'm just a little self-conscious. I don't feel totally comfortable yet doing that until I'm certain enough people really understand me. Or something. I don't wanna do something I'll regret later lol.

    No, I don't have low self-esteem and think I'm ugly lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    He actually edited his original reply to you. It was at first something about getting a life. I think he was scared of your response to that, just had to tell yah hahahaha it's so funny he edited it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by UDP View Post
    "Oh, you'd rather be pestered for photos. Pardon me."


    I changed my response because I was considering whether or not it is something I wanted to say, as per the consequences. It seems a bout of quarreling with Ezra was inevitable, and yet, it is not. We both have a choice in the matter, as to how far it goes. In some other posts, I have acted in a retaliatory fashion, one that was pro-bickering.

    Here, I considered not bickering, when I changed it from "get a life"; I wrote "get a life" originally because I thought b&d was going to be pestered into presenting pictures - when of course that is what someone chooses to do on their own. Then I consulted a few people about ethics, and changed what I wrote. Perhaps the best thing to have said, in retrospect, would have been "B&D will post pictures when he wants to", nothing more.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    Thanks, UDP. Honestly, I'm just a little self-conscious. I don't feel totally comfortable yet doing that until I'm certain enough people really understand me. Or something. I don't wanna do something I'll regret later lol.

    No, I don't have low self-esteem and think I'm ugly lol.
    B&D, mate, I'm sorry to say but not being able to post your photo is the height of poor confidence, whatever response you give. It's an incapability to be comfortable with the image of yourself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Darkstar View Post
    You sure got ezra there scarlett *thumbsup*
    A swing and a miss
    I will not aim for the head.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Darkstar View Post
    A swing and a miss
    Hahahaha. Never mind. We all make mistakes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    Hahahaha. Never mind. We all make mistakes.
    As long as your feelings didn't get hurt
    I will not aim for the head.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    B&D, mate, I'm sorry to say but not being able to post your photo is the height of poor confidence, whatever response you give. It's an incapability to be comfortable with the image of yourself.
    Lol at your manipulation attempt. You could also say that a person who felt the need to present his image to others for approval mightn't be so comfortable with his self-image.
    "Language is the Rubicon that divides man from beast."

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    Yeah, there could be a number of reasons as to why somebody wouldn't want to post there pictures up on a public forum and it could actually be seen as a smart thing to avoid in some cases.
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    Maybe dove is someones next door neighbour and is on this forum to stalk him or her!

    It would be weird if dove gave a picture in that case! whooeze hoo haa!
    I will not aim for the head.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Darkstar View Post
    As long as your feelings didn't get hurt
    Ahh, well, you know them... those... damn feelings! You know, the ones that get so... easily hurt!

    Quote Originally Posted by Jem View Post
    Lol at your manipulation attempt. You could also say that a person who felt the need to present his image to others for approval mightn't be so comfortable with his self-image.
    Yes, and someone who isn't comfortable with his self-image is insecure, and someone who is insecure has little to no confidence. Hence, my statement was perfectly valid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    Yes, and someone who isn't comfortable with his self-image is insecure, and someone who is insecure has little to no confidence. Hence, my statement was perfectly valid.
    And someone who has little to no confidence is insecure, and someone who is insecure is not comfortable with his self-image. And someone who is not comfortable with his self-image is insecure, and someone who is insecure has little to no confidence. Therewith and heretofore, you didn't read what I wrote properly. You're proving my point.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jem View Post
    And someone who has little to no confidence is insecure, and someone who is insecure is not comfortable with his self-image. And someone who is not comfortable with his self-image is insecure, and someone who is insecure has little to no confidence. Therewith and heretofore, you didn't read what I wrote properly. You're proving my point.
    What bullshit.

    That's like my saying that all apples are fruit, and your translating that as all fruit are apples.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    What bullshit.

    That's like my saying that all apples are fruit, and your translating that as all fruit are apples.
    Your statement was stupid because you were saying that a person who doesn't post their pictures is necessarily lacking in self-confidence. That's not the case, as there could be any number of reasons - most of which have nothing to do with the person's self-image. That's all I'm saying.
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    He's explained why. He's uncomfortable. The only reason someone is uncomfortable with posting a picture of themselves is because they're insecure. I challenge you to come up with another reason.

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    1. he may feel freer to be 'himself' - who he really is inside - that he is his thoughts and feelings, not what he looks like
    2. not feeling comfortable about revealing private information about himself to a bunch of relative strangers and possible weirdopaths
    3. not wanting to take orders from the likes of Ezra
    4. who is this Ezra guy, anyway?
    5. why does Ezra want to see B&D's picture so much?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    No, I don't have low self-esteem and think I'm ugly lol.
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    Thanks guys. I <3 when people defend me when I don't wanna do something.

    Ezra, what's your problem man? Why do you want to see my picture so much?

    No, I'm not 'revealing a weakness' for you to hunt. Stop trying to think you're this big bad predator guy.

    Being uncomfortable doesn't always relate to low self-esteem, or being innately insecure, or having psychological hang-ups. I don't trust my gut intuition yet to show my picture, so I'm going to follow that.

    Also: bad experiences. I think it's wise for everybody to only show your picture online in very private settings where people agree with you as much as possible.

    How could I honestly be insecure? I already told very, very private things about myself, regarding my awkward adolescence mainly. An insecure person isn't honest about those things. An insecure person tries to cover them up. I get shy/sheepish sometimes, yes, but that is only natural.

    I could say the same about you. Ezra, you are a pansy unless you show me a pic of you giving head to one of your 'mates.'

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    Lol at your manipulation attempt. You could also say that a person who felt the need to present his image to others for approval mightn't be so comfortable with his self-image.
    BINGO!

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    Face it, Ezra. You've lost this one. Surrender your flag.

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    No one has come up with a reason yet that isn't related to insecurity.

    Quote Originally Posted by ifmd95 View Post
    because someone might photoshop obscenities onto it and encourage others to display it as their forum icon?
    ...And? How does that affect someone who is confident in themselves? Answer: it doesn't.

    Quote Originally Posted by Jem View Post
    1. he may feel freer to be 'himself' - who he really is inside - that he is his thoughts and feelings, not what he looks like
    What kind of bullshit is that? Yeah, I think from now on I'm going to wear a box over me when I go into town because I'll feel freer if people don't see me.

    2. not feeling comfortable about revealing private information about himself to a bunch of relative strangers and possible weirdopaths
    3. not wanting to take orders from the likes of Ezra
    4. who is this Ezra guy, anyway?
    5. why does Ezra want to see B&D's picture so much?
    Insecurities. Suspicion, paranoia, not trusting people, second guessing and doubting are all insecurities.

    and ftr:
    So you trust that B&D's self-perception is indubitable and unchangeable? How do you know that he knows exactly what it's related to?

    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    Ezra, what's your problem man? Why do you want to see my picture so much?
    I don't give a shit about your picture. I'm trying to prove that the fact that you don't want to show it is because you're insecure. You're clearly not going to show it. So I'm getting you to admit that it's because you're insecure.

    Stop trying to think you're this big bad predator guy.
    *yawn*

    This shit is old.

    Being uncomfortable doesn't always relate to low self-esteem, or being innately insecure, or having psychological hang-ups. I don't trust my gut intuition yet to show my picture, so I'm going to follow that.
    Yes, and said gut instinct is irrational.

    Also: bad experiences. I think it's wise for everybody to only show your picture online in very private settings where people agree with you as much as possible.
    This relates to what ifmd was saying. My response is relevant.

    How could I honestly be insecure? I already told very, very private things about myself, regarding my awkward adolescence mainly. An insecure person isn't honest about those things. An insecure person tries to cover them up. I get shy/sheepish sometimes, yes, but that is only natural.
    Not necessarily. If you're looking for help from others, you're not going to hide it. If you're, as I think you may be, a 6w7, you'll look for external sources of help because without them you'll suffer. And who wants to suffer?

    I could say the same about you. Ezra, you are a pansy unless you show me a pic of you giving head to one of your 'mates.'
    Female? Of course. It's just a shame McNew is a moralist.

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    The reason I don't post photos is because I don't want people to feel insecure about their appearance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    No one has come up with a reason yet that isn't related to insecurity.
    People stealing your pictures and using them, e-stalking, and some people are just private.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Subterranean View Post
    The reason I don't post photos is because I don't want people to feel insecure about their appearance.
    how considerate of you!
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    I can't be bothered reading the replies, let's end the show here and now, you've won, I've lost, end of. It's petty and ridiculous.

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