She's very clearly ESE.
He's a Se dominant, SEE or SLE. I'm inclined to go for SEE. A SEE of what I might call "Lyndon Johnson subtype".
As SEE-ESE quasi-identicals, I'd expect them to have gotten together by circumstances (ie sharing same hobbies, lived in the same place, worked in the same place) and by physical attraction rather than by a "meeting of soul mates".
Each will find the other "stupid" in different ways.