alpha: i must not have worded it correctly; you misunderstood me; I'm not in my right mind
beta: you caught me at a bad time; that wasn't the right time to say that; you shouldn't have said that and made me look bad
gamma: You're not talking about the same thing (failing to consider other possibilities); that wouldn't happen; why do you care about that (theory, relevant hypotheticals); you've never had sex (to discount someone's argument)
deltas: you can't be trusted/you're a bad person; you can do it another way; I like/hate her; red herring types of statements (need help on this one)