Who's your enneagram dual?
Which enneagram type would you consider to be your "dual"?
My "enneagram dual" is type 7.
I 'd also pick type 4 as my 2nd ideal partner (maybe less like a "dual" in socionics terms, although I could see that too, but more as a 2nd best long-term potential relationship)
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Originally Posted by Gilly
Counterphobic 6's AW YEEEEEAH!
Moonlight will fall
Winter will end
Harvest will come
Your heart will mend
Your cat looks like one.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
I must admit I've no idea; I've never really studied the enneagram a great deal beyond finding my own type. I guess whichever type SEEs are likely to be, which from what I remember reading here and there is usually somewhere between 6 and 8, with the wings also within those boundaries (i.e. from 6w7 to 8w7 and all inbetween). But I could be wrong.
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5w4 so/sx
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These are the most natural and/or most common Dual pairings in the Enneagram:
1s and 2s
3s and 4s/5s
6s and 8s
7s and 9s
Why in particular do you like counter phobic 6's? (or do you jest here?)
Are you asking me to gay marry you? because the answer is YES. That might've been too much.... I couldn't stop clicking things for added effect.
Anyway, maybe 2 or 9? I'm not sure. I'm not that well versed in enneagram and I haven't really tried matching people I know with enneagram types at all, although for some of them it shouldn't be too hard.
I'm so serious you don't even know!~
Moonlight will fall
Winter will end
Harvest will come
Your heart will mend
probably 7 or 8
I would think my enneagram dual is 3. Second choice is 4.
Even if threes can get on my nerves sometimes I think three would be more beneficial to me because they would motivate me to achieve. To fulfill my potential. They wouldn't let me slow down. Four would be someone I could spend good time with but who would passivate me. Four is like a "lazy man's choice" for me. Three would make me work harder for the relationship than a four would.
Seven would likely be the least compatible. Or perhaps I just misunderstand the types because in theory seven shouldn't be such a bad match. Just from what I read about it I don't get good vibes. They seem somehow chaotic, random and unpredictable. The opposite of what I need.
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Damn, burntorange is like a stud, guys. Bow down and worship this greek god! Sacrifice a lamb or a cow or something, bitches!I'm fairly certain that if I just pretend like I'm being praised for long enough eventually you guys will start to believe it
Moonlight will fall
Winter will end
Harvest will come
Your heart will mend
All I wanted was your hand in gay marriage, not to be your god. wtf? Some roast lamb does sound delicious, though...
yes
well, sort of
"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
--Theodore Roosevelt
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."
-- Mark Twain
"Man who stand on hill with mouth open will wait long time for roast duck to drop in."
-- Confucius
4's or 9's.
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Odd. I've always been most strongly attracted to 7s (both 7w6s and 7w8s). They're like my Achilles heel. Definitely the bane of my romantic existence.
socio: INFp - IEI
ennea: 4w5 sp/sx
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Um... No.
socio: INFp - IEI
ennea: 4w5 sp/sx
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Well, it is good to know many of you Ni types so far like eights.
"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
--Theodore Roosevelt
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."
-- Mark Twain
"Man who stand on hill with mouth open will wait long time for roast duck to drop in."
-- Confucius
1w9 probably.
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
8w9
IEI-Fe 4w3
If I take an enneagram test on behalf of my dual, I get 2w1. I'm not at all convinced that's right.
Type 2 is the natural dual of ISTjs and INTjs.
yeah, ESEs are often 2s. My ESE husband is a 6 but 2 is the next highest for him.
IEI-Fe 4w3
Hmm, yes, it does have implications. I can't find a 2(w1) description I find satisfactory at the moment, however.
What sort of enneagram type would an ESTj get, roughly?
The next highest type from the 9types.com test I did was 6(w7).
yeah he's a 6w7. I'm not sure what an ESTj would get. I avoid them.Maybe 1?
IEI-Fe 4w3
8.
You could perhaps be a 6 if you are an INFj, but the most typical 6 is an ISFj.
I think Sub meant that the next highest his dual got was a 6.
IEI-Fe 4w3
Your ESE husband is a 2. Every ESE is a 2.
yeah and every SEI is a 9. I know, I know. but he's a 6.
IEI-Fe 4w3
He is not a 6 if he is an ESE. Study the Enneagram and the types and stop spreading bullshit. Every ESE is a 2. Period. And, yes, of course every SEI is a 9.
Just like every LII is a 1? Why do you continue to advance the case for baseless myths?
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How can this be when all ISFps are supposedly negativists, while nines are supposed to be optimists?
No, it is not necessarily true that every LII is a 1. But it is necessarily true that every ESE is a 2 and that every SEI is a 9. The ESE is the prototype for E2, and the SEI is the prototype for E9. And if you are the most typical representative of an Enneagram type, then you cannot be any other type. Why? Because both your Enneagram type and your socionic type are inborn.
I'm not going to have this discussion again.
IEI-Fe 4w3
9s are certainly not the most typical optimists, and ISFps are certainly not the most typical pessimists. You don't seem to understand what it means to be a Negativist in the Reinin dichotomies. It does not equal being a pessimist, and neither does being a Positivist equal being an optimist.
So why don't you shut up then and accept what I say as the truth?I'm not going to have this discussion again.
Ummm...because what you say is wrong?
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No, that's not the reason.
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