We all belonged to a theatre group and became fast friends. Now that the group is over I started to hang out with them outside of the group.
First I feel I should mention that when i'm in theatre I become a very different person. I am normally quiet and calm.
I dont think they realize that i'm not the same person that I am in theatre. In our theatre group I was the best at improv acting [I was told to teach them] so they assume that i'm always naturally funny.
I thought we were really close because whenever they have problems, I'm always the first one they call. We always have nice little deep moments, but only seperate of eachother.
When we all go out together, they always do crazy, highly immature things that I'm just not into. I can only play along for so long. If i'm not going ape shit like they are they think that i'm upset and ask whats wrong. Then dont really care to wait for my answer.
Basically..If i'm not in "theatre mode" They seem to think theres something wrong with me.
Is there something about their types that you think I could use to help me explain to them how i'm feeling?
Do you know of any enfj and enfp friends who are like this?
Is it just me and not them?
[also as for my type i'm not sure what I am yet... but I believe I am an INFJ.]