I wrote two real-life stories where you actually can FEEL/place yourself right there in the moment (or so I hope I tried my best) regarding and respectively. I'm as lost about as you are so I can't help you there, but I might work on other functions later.
Let's face it. What you're asking for is a bit too vague/important for one person to get a handle on, but I hope this thread can help you really see things: http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...ad.php?t=20223
Remember, we only have a few functions we are very capable in so one person is going to give you incomplete/not fully correct or in the case of their polrs most likely flat-out wrong advice if they try to explain all the functions themselves! (Or they might not be technically wrong, but they will lack the physicality where you can't relate to it at all) I'm sure I could try just for kicks but you'd have to take it into perspective.
I would like to hear Expat's Te processes as well so I can finally really recognize how that is my polr.