so i was thinking that we all move in and out of relationships all the time, but for this question i'm thinking more of dating or romantic relationships. for example, in my 20's i went out with a guy who was kinda lazy for about 3 years, so the next guy i chose was pretty diligent. but he was also kind of cut-throat (SeTi) so the next guy i choose is more emotional and laid back.
has anybody noticed these type of patterns over time? do we think we look for different info elements from people as we change relationships?