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    Default Two Kinds of IEIs/INFps (enneagram difference?)

    niffweed made me think of something.

    Firstly, you have the Starfall/glamourama kind. They're hotter than the other kind in my opinion, because they just shut the fuck up and do anything for you.

    KIDIIIINGGG . . . (except that they are hotter)

    No, they're generally quite quiet and passive, but there's clear interest there beyond the surface. They're a mystery that is worth cracking. Probably less male, more female. If they were a subtype, they'd be Fe subtype. They're primarily 4w3s.

    Secondly, you have kind that I call the intellectual IEI. Loki, esper and my father all fall into this category of IEI. They're into their esoteric systems of thought (like the Enneagram) - in the case of esper and my father - or they write long, drawn-out yet extremely insightful posts - in Loki's case - about any given (metaphysical/philosophical) topic. This isn't to say the other lot can't be insightful, because they can; they just don't do it as often as this lot do. Anyway, these guys seem more comfortable giving out information on their area of interest, and they love coming up with new theories and ideas within said area. People value them for their wisdom. More males (even though, ironically, two of the examples I gave - Loki and esper - are both female) than females, as the intellectual interest draws them. If they were a subtype, they'd probably be Ni. I think they're mainly 4w5s.

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    pretty good pretty good
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    My reply: well I will answer that, if you first tell me how much you weigh!

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    A girl I was dating said she was oh so great at sex etc, but she didn't do blowjobs.
    My reply: Oh I'm really romantic etc, I just will never take you out to dinner.

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    My IEI friend fits perfectly into the second category! Except he's 9w1.

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    I apparently defy your IEI category-making. Definitely not a quiet passive anything. But also not primarily theory-espousing either. Most of the IEIs here I find are quite on the youngish side. Certainly, there's frequently flashes of overlap in mindset, but I'm on the good side of 40 at this point. I think there's a definite generation gap between 20-smths and myself.

    I relate most to redbaron actually, even if she's more reserved than I.
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    Quote Originally Posted by aka-kitsune View Post
    I relate most to redbaron actually, even if she's more reserved than I.
    I relate most to aka-kitsune and Loki. Both of them are less lazy than I am and more willing to articulate things and take the time to type them out. I usually just wait for them to respond so I can agree. LOL just kiddin. well, sort of...

    I used to consider myself Ni subtype but now I feel like I'm no subtype. I can be both. I guess in my old age I've discovered the benefits of creative Fe and use it more often than I used to.
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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron
    :I usually just wait for them to respond so I can agree. LOL just kiddin. well, sort of...
    I do this too... with so many IEIs on the forum, one of them is bound to express something rather close to my point of view. And even when they don't say something representing what I think, it still is so similar in point of view or outlook, that I can't really feel any strong sense of disagreement with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by aka-kitsune View Post
    I apparently defy your IEI category-making. Definitely not a quiet passive anything. But also not primarily theory-espousing either. Most of the IEIs here I find are quite on the youngish side. Certainly, there's frequently flashes of overlap in mindset, but I'm on the good side of 40 at this point. I think there's a definite generation gap between 20-smths and myself.

    I relate most to redbaron actually, even if she's more reserved than I.
    I tend to find myself nodding in agreement with your posts & viewpoints as well. It could be age, life experience, etc. - I'm turning 34 next month.... I mean 27, again

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    Quote Originally Posted by Markuz View Post
    My IEI friend fits perfectly into the second category! Except he's 9w1.
    I can dig that.

    Quote Originally Posted by aka-kitsune View Post
    I apparently defy your IEI category-making. Definitely not a quiet passive anything. But also not primarily theory-espousing either. Most of the IEIs here I find are quite on the youngish side. Certainly, there's frequently flashes of overlap in mindset, but I'm on the good side of 40 at this point. I think there's a definite generation gap between 20-smths and myself.

    I relate most to redbaron actually, even if she's more reserved than I.
    Yeahhhh, theory-espouser. I think people like you, redbaron and zenbrat are confident enough to make assertions within the realms of socionics, but you're less likely to discourse in the same way Loki or esper would. However, you're certainly more like them than you are Starfall and glam. Who knows? It could be age differences. I mean, Starfall and glam are my age; you lot are anything from mid 20s to 40 (you! ). It could just be about "mystical maturation" or something. Ha! What a theory.

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    Yeahhhh, theory-espouser. I think people like you, redbaron and zenbrat are confident enough to make assertions within the realms of socionics, but you're less likely to discourse in the same way Loki or esper would. However, you're certainly more like them than you are Starfall and glam. Who knows? It could be age differences. I mean, Starfall and glam are my age; you lot are anything from mid 20s to 40 (you! ). It could just be about "mystical maturation" or something. Ha! What a theory.
    yes ezra. they probably have lives. things to do places to go people to see.

    your categories are simple:those you want to fuck and those you don't....because you can't.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dolphin View Post


    lol lol lol. Wow sunshine. Whatever I was expecting...well it wasn't......um just nevermind.
    LOL yeah sometimes....i'll just fucking say anything....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunshine Lively View Post
    LOL yeah sometimes....i'll just fucking say anything....
    I'm amused.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunshine Lively View Post
    yes ezra. they probably have lives. things to do places to go people to see.

    your categories are simple:those you want to fuck and those you don't....because you can't.
    ahahahaah great
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunshine Lively View Post
    yes ezra. they probably have lives. things to do places to go people to see.

    your categories are simple:those you want to fuck and those you don't....because you can't.
    That's hot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    That's hot.
    i knew you wanted to fuck me....but you cccan't

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    those who are easily shocked.....should be shocked more often

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunshine Lively View Post
    i knew you wanted to fuck me....but you cccan't

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    The second type is an Alpha/Beta hybrid or fully alpha. The defining trait of INFps is narcissism and Histrionic behavior.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hitta View Post
    The second type is an Alpha/Beta hybrid or fully alpha. The defining trait of INFps is narcissism and Histrionic behavior.
    Is this true? I guess I could be an INFp afterall.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hitta View Post
    The second type is an Alpha/Beta hybrid or fully alpha. The defining trait of INFps is narcissism and Histrionic behavior.
    Fucktard.

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    lol @ this

    Quote Originally Posted by reckoner View Post
    Is this true? I guess I could be an INFp afterall.
    Anything that comes out of hitta's mouth is rubbish.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    Fucktard.



    lol @ this



    Anything that comes out of hitta's mouth is rubbish.
    Actually I'm not the one that called INFps histrionic and narcissistic. Please see socionics.org.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hitta View Post
    Actually I'm not the one that called INFps histrionic and narcissistic. Please see socionics.org.
    If that site says that some IEIs are more prone to histrionic and narcissistic disorders than other types, which it probably does, then fair enough. But your suggesting that all IEIs are histrionics and narcissists is ridiculous.

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    Wow, you are so dominating Ezra!

    INFp

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wittmont View Post
    Wow, you are so dominating Ezra!

    He just wants your hot body.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Loki View Post
    you've got nice boobs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wittmont View Post
    Wow, you are so dominating Ezra!

    "Pwnage" I think is the preferred term in this instance.

    @ mercutio: you have nice boobs.

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