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    I'm waiting for my Dual.

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    I'm waiting for myself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Loki View Post
    I'm waiting for myself.
    Good for you Loki good for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by confused84
    I'm waiting for my Dual.
    Good for you Confused. Good for you.

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    Eh, why not
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    Quote Originally Posted by ifmd95 View Post
    too much else at stake to be that narrow. but i would consider using socionics type to rule a few possibilities out.
    agreed, between a bunch of other important variables (i.e. similar culture, age within a couple years, economic status, relative maturity or intelligence for lack of a better word, geographical proximity etc.) the probability of the perfect dual to come knocking on your door is very low. And hell if you're going to wait only for your dual you may as well limit the subtype too, and cut that probability in half, lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by misutii View Post
    agreed, between a bunch of other important variables (i.e. similar culture, age within a couple years, economic status, relative maturity or intelligence for lack of a better word, geographical proximity etc.) the probability of the perfect dual to come knocking on your door is very low. And hell if you're going to wait only for your dual you may as well limit the subtype too, and cut that probability in half, lol.
    Yeah, but people live a long time these days... if you're going to be with someone for fifty or sixty years - the rest of your life! - you should be pretty picky, I think.

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    Quote Originally Posted by confused84 View Post
    I'm waiting for my Dual.
    You cant really wait for your Dual.....some Duals are even incompatable....you have to look for a good quadra fit....and then maybe luck out Dual-wise.




    Hey Confused84... btw..are you sure you are ENTP....fwiw you look ESFJ to me in the pic IMO.
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    Quote Originally Posted by songofsappho View Post
    Yeah, but people live a long time these days... if you're going to be with someone for fifty or sixty years - the rest of your life! - you should be pretty picky, I think.

    HAHAA.. good point......nothing worse than an 80 year old arguing with a 70 year old for a long stretch of time.
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    Would it be hypocritical to say yes.............now?

    Probably.

    I guess I will explore other people, but I am on the lookout for duality, for sure.
    Hello, my name is Bee. Pleased to meet you .



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    Quote Originally Posted by kensi View Post
    You cant really wait for your Dual.....some Duals are even incompatable....you have to look for a good quadra fit....and then maybe luck out Dual-wise.




    Hey Confused84... btw..are you sure you are ENTP....fwiw you look ESFJ to me in the pic IMO.
    LALALALALALALALALALALA not listening.

    Dude, he's in my country! We're even roughly the same age!

    If only I wasn't so retarded *sigh*
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    Quote Originally Posted by bee View Post
    I guess I will explore other people, but I am on the lookout for duality, for sure.
    Ditto this... to an extent.

    I find that things tend to work themselves out. When the time is right - when I've had some more single-me adventures or better yet when I'm in the midst of one - then, I'll meet him. I wouldn't have it any other way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bee View Post
    LALALALALALALALALALALA not listening.

    Dude, he's in my country! We're even roughly the same age!

    If only I wasn't so retarded *sigh*
    I'm happy for you (i think)!
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    I'm waiting for my semi dual.
    "Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."

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    Quote Originally Posted by kensi View Post
    You cant really wait for your Dual.....some Duals are even incompatable....you have to look for a good quadra fit....and then maybe luck out Dual-wise.




    Hey Confused84... btw..are you sure you are ENTP....fwiw you look ESFJ to me in the pic IMO.

    What because I am smiling. Lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Loki View Post
    I'm waiting for myself.
    For the longest time, I have to say this holds more truth than most anything I've ever heard.
    Moonlight will fall
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    Your heart will mend

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    Quote Originally Posted by munenori2 View Post
    For the longest time, I have to say this holds more truth than most anything I've ever heard.

    What exactly does it mean?
    Pre-2013 post are written with incomplete understanding.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UDP View Post
    What exactly does it mean?
    It means whatever you're waiting to see. How can you know what you want when you don't know who you are? Or if you think maybe, just maybe, you're not being honest with yourself? Putting someone on the limb while you're in the dark, it just doesn't seem fair.
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    Quote Originally Posted by confused84 View Post
    If you are single are you waiting for you Dual?
    If you're asking this by putting a picture of yourself in your avatar are you publicly looking for a date?
    “Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”

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    You've done yourself a huge favor developmentally by mustering the balls to do something really fucking scary... in about the most vulnerable situation possible.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Winterpark View Post
    If you're asking this by putting a picture of yourself in your avatar are you publicly looking for a date?
    LOL If I was I post a big thread with the title any Isfp's want to go out with me.

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    Nah no way. I hate my dual/s, twats lot of them! I'd rather have the psychological discomfort I'm used to anyday!
    ENTp... love it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Winterpark View Post
    If you're asking this by putting a picture of yourself in your avatar are you publicly looking for a date?
    LOL. I thought the same thing.

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    suspicious minds.

    I love me. i've been doing the waiting for myself thing but she's taking too long. There may be a multi million dollar settlement soon though. I think i can multitask; a partner can help you learn things you wouldn't come to on your own. You can't limit some things.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dolphin View Post
    Which one?
    I have to choose?
    "Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."

    - Voltaire

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    Quote Originally Posted by LokiVanguard View Post
    I'm waiting for my semi dual.
    Yeah, we know we're awesome.

    I think actively seeking leads to me over-thinking. I'll just ride the wave and see where it takes me, thanks.
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    If you are single are you waiting for you Dual?
    lol, nope.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ifmd95 View Post
    too much else at stake to be that narrow. but i would consider using socionics type to rule a few possibilities out.

    agree. this is kind of how i use socionics also.

    ILE

    those who are easily shocked.....should be shocked more often

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    This question doesn't apply to me any more, but back when I was single I was pretty open about the type of who I was interested in. Obviously certain types I would've ruled out, but otherwise I wasn't fussy. My mindset was that a dual was preferable but not necessary.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mn0good View Post
    Yeah, we know we're awesome.
    You guys are alright.
    "Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."

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    Eh, no. I would hate to miss out on someone just because I didn't think there were my "dual". But i've definetly learned to avoid certain types when it comes to romance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LokiVanguard View Post
    You guys are alright.
    But WE are wayyyy better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by qbsirena06 View Post
    But WE are wayyyy better.
    hmmmmm don't we kinda run neck and neck? :-)

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    those who are easily shocked.....should be shocked more often

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunshine Lively View Post
    hmmmmm don't we kinda run neck and neck? :-)
    it's nice having options
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    Honestly I just want a decent girl who loves me and doesn't try to change or emasculate me any chance she gets.


    A nice rack never hurts though.
    "Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."

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    Quote Originally Posted by LokiVanguard View Post
    Honestly I just want a decent girl who loves me and is not a total control bitch.
    +1

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    A nice rack never hurts though.
    “Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”

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    Quote Originally Posted by LokiVanguard View Post
    Honestly I just want a decent girl who loves me and is not a total control bitch.


    A nice rack never hurts though.
    34, 26, 36?

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    All i want is a guy I don't want to change.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ephemeros View Post
    -1
    did you actually lived with someone? "good" relationships in Socionics refer to daily life not spiritual cosmic connections, arousal or stuff like that.
    about changing, that's right. that pretty sucks.
    What the fuck are you babbling about?
    "Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."

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