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    My parents' friends brought their 11 month old baby girl, and it was extremely cool. She is a very messy eater. I kept on finding myself wiping her mouth and hands. I think I am a caregiver or something, I was just drawn to the little thing that cooed and moved its arms up and down.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kamangir View Post
    My parents' friends brought their 11 month old baby girl, and it was extremely cool. She is a very messy eater. I kept on finding myself wiping her mouth and hands. I think I am a caregiver or something, I was just drawn to the little thing that cooed and moved its arms up and down.



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    I can add to the pinching cheek factor:

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    Nice t-shirt, lol.

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    Aww. I went through that phase for a bit, then I realised I still preferred art to babies

    Go work in childcare over the summer, it will cure you forever, promise!

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    But they are awfully cuuute..
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    Quote Originally Posted by esper View Post
    AWWW!
    that one is my drama queen. the one that looks a lot like scarlettlux. and she knows how it work it! i sensed that energy in her before she was born. and she came out ALL EYELASHES.

    my other girl is sweet, gentle, calm, looks "through" you, and yet tough. she punches anyone who gets too close to her. it's a funny combination in a 13mo old.

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    Wow, what a coincidence. I was riding home on the bus after fireworks last night and there was a single mother with three kids. She kept talking to her kids by mouthing the words to them because it was too loud and by making signals with her hands and they knew what she was saying every time. As I was watching I started to think about how profound the connection between mother and child is. I was going to start a thread about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bee View Post
    Aww. I went through that phase for a bit, then I realised I still preferred art to babies

    Go work in childcare over the summer, it will cure you forever, promise!

    <3

    But they are awfully cuuute..
    An SEI who doesn't want babies? Where do I sign up?? It's either that or I get a secret vasectomy...
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    Quote Originally Posted by diljs View Post
    An SEI who doesn't want babies? Where do I sign up?? It's either that or I get a secret vasectomy...
    You wouldn't want children? ):

    I would want one for me and two so the one won't be lonely.
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    Quote Originally Posted by diljs View Post
    An SEI who doesn't want babies? Where do I sign up?? It's either that or I get a secret vasectomy...
    Do you r00t? We could have something perfect going on here....oh wait I'm in Australia, hahaha FAIL *cries*

    I guess I want them someday, just not right now, or in fact in the foreseeable future... I dunno? I'm complicated enough without bringing kids into it right now!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kamangir View Post
    You wouldn't want children? ):

    I would want one for me and two so the one won't be lonely.
    I don't think it's fair to the kids to have fewer than 5.

    I also don't want to have children until after 30...because I'd like to do some fun things with my life before pissing it all away taking care of the children.

    So I guess I want an SEI who doesn't want children right away, and then wants a lot. Either that or I date women several years younger than myself.
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    i want an enormous child
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kamangir View Post
    You wouldn't want children? ):

    I would want one for me and two so the one won't be lonely.
    Just like cats, eh?

    Seriously though, I also think it's better that way.
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    Quote Originally Posted by diljs View Post
    I don't think it's fair to the kids to have fewer than 5.

    I also don't want to have children until after 30...because I'd like to do some fun things with my life before pissing it all away taking care of the children.

    So I guess I want an SEI who doesn't want children right away, and then wants a lot. Either that or I date women several years younger than myself.
    I want about 4 or 5 kids, so it sounds fair to me. Not right away, but sometime.
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    There's something about the idea of having children of your own, that this little person is a part of you and it's your responsibility to take care of them, that is just so viscerally satisfying. It hits me in the gut and simply takes my breath away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by diljs View Post
    An SEI who doesn't want babies?
    The SEI partner of my ILE friend doesn't want to have children. Neither does my SEI friend.

    What a waste. Don't reply, just accept it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by diljs View Post
    I don't think it's fair to the kids to have fewer than 5.
    Are you an only child by any chance?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Loki View Post
    being an only child would be really lonely in a way...
    I know that, I am one. But my dad had 5 brothers and sisters and said the total lack of privacy was tiring at times.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elro View Post
    Are you an only child by any chance?
    One brother. More siblings would have been a lot better since we moved at least twice a year and essentially weren't allowed to leave the house until high school.

    Quote Originally Posted by Elro View Post
    I know that, I am one. But my dad had 5 brothers and sisters and said the total lack of privacy was tiring at times.
    I bet dad isn't ILE.
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