I was wondering if some Se and Fi-ers could speak to this.
I think whenever I try to Ti or speak from an understanding of things structurally it pisses them off so i stop doing that, but for everything. But then sometimes, they will say something that seems like they want me to do that. Can some people tell me *when* an ISFj or ESFp would want an abstract rule or structure (when something more immediate or practical is available)?
An example is something at work where we have a specific case, and ISFj asks for a general opinion, i give a general consideration, superiors go off of that to the specific, and then she says that's not what she asked. I am mystified by this behavior. Its so usually the other way around. Sometimes i think she just wants to be contrary to me.