How many of you would consider yourself being competitive, domineering, and business like?
How many of you would consider yourself being competitive, domineering, and business like?
"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
--Theodore Roosevelt
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."
-- Mark Twain
"Man who stand on hill with mouth open will wait long time for roast duck to drop in."
-- Confucius
FAIL.
Hello, my name is Bee. Pleased to meet you .
"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
--Theodore Roosevelt
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."
-- Mark Twain
"Man who stand on hill with mouth open will wait long time for roast duck to drop in."
-- Confucius
I would like to add another question to this thread: Do you know an alpha that has super competitive traits?
"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
--Theodore Roosevelt
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."
-- Mark Twain
"Man who stand on hill with mouth open will wait long time for roast duck to drop in."
-- Confucius
Because I am trying to prove myself wrong. Lately I have been giving into the stereotype that Alphas don't like to strive to be powerful, or that they are not competent in powerful positions. I want to see if there are any others besides me (at least on this forum), that strive to become and will do whatever it takes to accomplish that dream.
"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
--Theodore Roosevelt
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."
-- Mark Twain
"Man who stand on hill with mouth open will wait long time for roast duck to drop in."
-- Confucius
"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
--Theodore Roosevelt
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."
-- Mark Twain
"Man who stand on hill with mouth open will wait long time for roast duck to drop in."
-- Confucius
I know an ILE that can be.
Hello, my name is Bee. Pleased to meet you .
I would definitely call myself competitive, but only because I like to win things. Which seems redundant, but I like winning games because of the feeling of successful completion at the end that I can never attain in normal life because I'm too busy moving onto new things. Otherwise I couldn't care less. In the business sense I'm definitely not competitive at all.
That being said, I become business-like at work because I work in a pretty serious work environment. That's out of necessity, not choice.
As for domineering, I'm not actually a domineering person, but my height and my impatience with people who are incapable can come across as such. And I guess I seem to demand attention wherever I go. But it's not like I try so much as it just happens because I'm a gregarious female with the physique of a supermodel. I kind of stick out and I can be a little intimidating if you don't know me, which I will take advantage of at places like the bank and large crowds...
ILE
7w8 so/sp
Very busy with work. Only kind of around.
"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
--Theodore Roosevelt
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."
-- Mark Twain
"Man who stand on hill with mouth open will wait long time for roast duck to drop in."
-- Confucius
"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
--Theodore Roosevelt
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."
-- Mark Twain
"Man who stand on hill with mouth open will wait long time for roast duck to drop in."
-- Confucius
The new motto for Alpha should be Think Big and Kick Ass .
Okay, it's me and Cracka, who else?
"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
--Theodore Roosevelt
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."
-- Mark Twain
"Man who stand on hill with mouth open will wait long time for roast duck to drop in."
-- Confucius
"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
--Theodore Roosevelt
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."
-- Mark Twain
"Man who stand on hill with mouth open will wait long time for roast duck to drop in."
-- Confucius
Thanks, I also love that quote.
I like to kick ass, but I prefer to do it in a subtle way so that I don't take any credit for it. I like knowing I've done well without any of the awkward fame and glory. I don't know what to do with compliments and the like, they throw me off balance.
ILE
7w8 so/sp
Very busy with work. Only kind of around.
i don't know my type yet, but that is my kind of "powerful." "strong personal power." not OVER other people, i like helping them strengthen themselves and then let's have fun competing for the fun of it to strengthen each other more.
what type are you Jimbean or are you still figuring it out yourself?
Kick Big and Think Ass
I actually think of myself as pretty ambitious, in that I have set high goals for myself, and I work hard to achieve them, but definitely not in an Se kind of way. I'm ambitious in that I actively refuse to let things around me become complacent, and do what it takes to prevent stagnation. In some ways, this is in fact more about "personal strength" than "kicking ass", but I'm not afraid to kick the ass of people who stand in the way of my goals. Only I tend to be more manipulative than directly confrontational, and even when I confront someone, I usually try to put it in a place where they will be made to look foolish.
In general, my ambitions are much more exploratory than expansionistic in nature, in that I work hard to have the freedom to look into every available option. In any field that I care about, I have at tendency to go to war (metaphorically) against anyone who tries to keep my vision from being set in motion. Though I usually work with people to bring out their potential, those who adamantly refuse to change provoke me into a rage that can be cooled by nothing less than their defeat. However, I have difficulty sustaining my drive in the absence of a passion towards a fairly clear goal or vision. I have no urge to take control for control's sake, and I can often get distracted or sidetracked by other pursuits.
JRiddy
—————King of Socionics—————
Ne-ENTp 7w8 sx/so
Ah, JRiddy, you've put my feelings into words perfectly.
ILE
7w8 so/sp
Very busy with work. Only kind of around.
I definitely set high goals for myself. I think I'm ambitious in the sense that I want to fulfill my personal potential to the fullest. What the world defines as success doesn't mean that much to me. I never accept any efforts of mine to be good enough. Not in a pessimistic way though - just that there's always something that can be done better. I don't ever expect or want to 'arrive' at a place where I've achieved everything I want to. The striving is the fun and fulfilling part.
I'm definitely not a leader-type by any means, but if no one else is stepping up to the role, I'll do what's necessary. I really dislike taking charge though.
People that 'stand in my way' to success I trample on mercilessly. Hahahaha. No. These people I generally ignore until they go away , or I go about things in a roundabout way so that they confront me first. I prefer people to confront me first because it makes me angry being that I dislike being controlled. So it's easy for me to be stubborn about standing my ground when I'm being excessively and obviously pushed. I find it harder to stay firm when I'm being subtly manipulated (think ENTps/ENFps) or my emotions are appealed to.
"Language is the Rubicon that divides man from beast."
I'd say I'm business-like, but I don't have much ambition.
I'm not really "dominant", I'm pretty loud, but I'm definitely not a pushy retard.
I'm not competitive, except at social situations, where I tend to seek others' attention subconsciously. I'm trying to be the smartest, the funniest, the loudest, or the most truthful. Besides, when drinking alcoholic beverages with other people, I tend to drink more than others. But that's all.
"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
--Theodore Roosevelt
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."
-- Mark Twain
"Man who stand on hill with mouth open will wait long time for roast duck to drop in."
-- Confucius
Frankly, I don't believe that matters. What matters is that I am a static logical type that is enneagram 8 with 7. I am introverted (regardless of socionics), and I value my sense of reality, reading good books, exploring the world, surrounding myself with good people, and (excuse the cornyness) the feeling of challenging myself everyday (which is why I don't spend that much time on this forum, but I like coming here because you folks are interesting )
Okay, now for the answer you want from me: I have typed myself to be ILE, but a few people on this forum that have met me typed me as (and Rick suspected) LSI, another typed me as an LSE, and another typed me as ILE. Through the forum I have heard LIE, LSE, LSI, SLE, ILE, and ILI.
"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
--Theodore Roosevelt
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."
-- Mark Twain
"Man who stand on hill with mouth open will wait long time for roast duck to drop in."
-- Confucius
Jriddy summed up the ILE viewpoint pretty well.
Compared to EJs and ESxPs, I suck at ambition. Not a fan of the or .
I'm ambitious and demanding of myself, but externally I'm chilled out and people rarely see me hard at work. EJs whine at me to "show more initiative" and I say "stfu I'm thinking about possibilities." I then go through a few hardcore multitasking periods and finish what takes them a day to do in about an hour and a half, so I can get back to listening to Pandora and reading up on socionics.
...This is also why I'm back to being self employed and no longer working with "Type A Central".
ILE - Ti.