I can't express everything well in this post because I barely had any sleep the past few days and my thinking is incoherent.. But anyway, I've been wondering the past few days whether I've typed myself right. Certain Things came up that made me question it.
I'm sure that I'm either EII or IEE but I need your help to decide which one it is.
So I'll tell you what made me rethink things.
First of all I have an intj friend and if I'm really an infj we should have look alike relations which are pretty comfortable but when I thought of it I realized that's not really the case. I have an infj friend and they (the intj and infj) get along very nicely while I don't get along with her well at all (with the intj). It feels like she's stifling me and I feel like I can't act freely when I'm around her because she always has some condescending comment to give me. Basically I hate her and she's not the least bit threatened by me. Ever since I knew her things were like this but we always seemed to be "good friends" at least in the most superficial way.. Though she always made me feel like a stupid imbecile in this "friendship".
Also if you think about it, if I'm the infj Ne subtype, I'm supposed to be even closer to being an intj….
Second thing that makes me unsure is that if I compare myself to my EII friend and she's a stereotypical one and we have some real differences. She's much more delicate than I am, much more afraid of any sort of confrontation (I dislike them but if I have to I'll try to deal with them) and much more introverted… We don't achieve complete consensus in our opinions and we used to have a lot of arguments because each of us has emphasis on slightly different areas. Nevertheless we get along well and have long conversations together that can be nice because we're likeminded but also wear off after a while. (That just sounded like I copied the description of mirror relations so maybe I'm brainwashed or something...)
I can give you much more information if you want but if I continue this will become way too long and nobody will want to read this. Please help me!