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    Default Enneagram Types: Female Eights

    Though male Eights are usually described as charming and manly, I find female Eights really repulsive and... not feminine at all.

    And you, what do you think of female Eights ?

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    example?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy View Post
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    hmmm I'm not repulsed by you. But when you talk all serious/deadpan it can make me feel this odd mix of amusement/annoyance. You're one of those people that I get a much more positive vibe from through video/in person (assuming we ever met) than through reading what you write. You don't express what I've seen physically in you in your writting.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bionicgoat View Post
    hmmm I'm not repulsed by you. But when you talk all serious/deadpan it can make me feel this odd mix of amusement/annoyance. You're one of those people that I get a much more positive vibe from through video/in person (assuming we ever met) than through reading what you write. You don't express what I've seen physically in you in your writting.
    You can't be repulsed by her because she's not a stupid Eight.

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    Quote Originally Posted by machintruc View Post
    You can't be repulsed by her because she's not a stupid Eight.
    she disagrees.

    in my head... someones personal knowledge and opinion about themselves > the typing and opinion of somebody who lives halfway across the world from them and is typing based on a percieved internet persona

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    I know a female LSE 8w7, just remembered her, worked with her last year. She was one of the best workers on that team. She was fun, supportive, enjoyed dressing up a little, but not the most feminine of the bunch. But wasn't unattractive either. Straight forward, earnest, good natured, hard worker. Also did gymnastics or something like that.

    She was good to be around.
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    If Linda Fiorentino is an Eight, then it defies the idea that Eights aren't hot. Also, a dude from EIDB showed me a hot Eight last year. To be fair, Joy isn't bad looking.

    The stereotypical female Eight is an stocky, powerful woman who normally has a good nature. If you look at any of the female Eights on Tom Condon's Enneagram site, you'll see that they're all ugly or in their fifties, and that most of them your average guy would describe as "butch".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    If Linda Fiorentino is an Eight, then it defies the idea that Eights aren't hot. Also, a dude from EIDB showed me a hot Eight last year. To be fair, Joy isn't bad looking.

    The stereotypical female Eight is an stocky, powerful woman who normally has a good nature. If you look at any of the female Eights on Tom Condon's Enneagram site, you'll see that they're all ugly or in their fifties, and that most of them your average guy would describe as "butch".
    Linda Fiorentino is S0D+. Then, E3.

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    huh. I *think* I'm an 8w9, but I'm not certain enough in e-type to say that with complete assurance. in any case, I don't think I'm 'girly' if that's what you mean by feminine, but I've never been mistaken for a guy, or described as 'butch'. haha, that would be absolutely hilarious.
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    Quote Originally Posted by idolatrie View Post
    huh. I *think* I'm an 8w9, but I'm not certain enough in e-type to say that with complete assurance. in any case, I don't think I'm 'girly' if that's what you mean by feminine, but I've never been mistaken for a guy, or described as 'butch'. haha, that would be absolutely hilarious.
    If you're really LSE, you're most likely E1, E3 or E6, though there are less frequent cases of E2, E4 or E8.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    The stereotypical female Eight is an stocky, powerful woman who normally has a good nature. If you look at any of the female Eights on Tom Condon's Enneagram site, you'll see that they're all ugly or in their fifties, and that most of them your average guy would describe as "butch".
    The stereotypical --+, though. Most -0+'s and -++'s don't look as stocky or butchy as --+'s. For example, Gretchen Wilson (-0+) doesn't look very bad.

    They're ugly. OK. You know, physical attractiveness is relative, and therefore, a zero-sum game. Eights are ugly, OK. That's not very bad, because as Eights aren't really "social", they don't need to be physically attractive to cope with society.

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    Quote Originally Posted by machintruc View Post
    Linda Fiorentino is S0D+. Then, E3.
    Oh yeah, I forgot about the recent brain scan you conducted on her. How did it go?

    Quote Originally Posted by idolatrie View Post
    huh. I *think* I'm an 8w9, but I'm not certain enough in e-type to say that with complete assurance. in any case, I don't think I'm 'girly' if that's what you mean by feminine, but I've never been mistaken for a guy, or described as 'butch'. haha, that would be absolutely hilarious.
    It's said that Golda Meir was an 8w9.



    She wasn't too bad or manly looking. And obviously, if Linda Fiorentino is indeed an 8w9, then my hypothesis goes out the window. She's hot.

    Quote Originally Posted by machintruc View Post
    If you're really LSE, you're most likely E1, E3 or E6, though there are less frequent cases of E2, E4 or E8.
    What was the point of saying that? She types herself by the fucking system, not by correlation. She doesn't follow your shitty line of thought "If I am LSE then I am most likely One, Three or Six. I'll go from there".

    Quote Originally Posted by machintruc View Post
    They're ugly. OK. You know, physical attractiveness is relative, and therefore, a zero-sum game. Eights are ugly, OK. That's not very bad, because as Eights aren't really "social", they don't need to be physically attractive to cope with society.
    What bullshit you spew. Who the fuck ever suggested Eights aren't "social"? What about so-first Eights; you ever read the R&H description? They're the fucking epitome of camaradrie; they are liveliness incarnate.

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    Two friends of mine are 8s and one of them is quite attractive and the other one used to be pretty attractive. They're not girly, but the confidence about them isn't masculine either. I can post pics if you want.
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    Anyone who says that females can be eights is either an idiot or a liar. If any of you had taken the time to compare the numerous descriptions of females and eights available on the web you would agree that this an indisputable fact.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bionicgoat View Post
    Anyone who says that females can be eights is either an idiot or a liar. If any of you had taken the time to compare the numerous descriptions of females and eights available on the web you would agree that this an indisputable fact.
    Sounds like you've led a sheltered life, goat.
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    My mom is an eight. It can be awesome, because sometimes I just get stressed out with life and she's like "lol just do this and you'll be fine" and it inevitably works. Sometimes it sucks because I think I have life figured out and she's like "lol do this and it will be better" and I get pissed off because I know she's right.

    Sometimes it really sucks because she'll be like "hey do this" and I don't want to and she keeps insisting that I do it and I'm like "mom i'm 20 leave me the fuck alone." But rehab helped her with that. So life is mostly good now.
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly View Post
    I'm like "mom i'm 20 leave me the fuck alone.".
    In 20 years you'll be saying, "mom i'm 40 leave me the fuck alone."
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    gah you're like the shittiest ENTj ever!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Expat View Post
    In 20 years you'll be saying, "mom i'm 40 leave me the fuck alone."
    Ahh - Ni vision .... Where would we be without it?
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    Quote Originally Posted by glamourama View Post
    I love moms <3
    that's hot.

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    I thought this thread was entitled 'Female Fights'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Expat View Post
    In 20 years you'll be saying, "mom i'm 40 leave me the fuck alone."
    >_<;
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
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    Under cerulean skies...

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    Or... you could just decide not to let it bother you.
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    Personally, I hate female Eights

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jem View Post
    Two friends of mine are 8s and one of them is quite attractive and the other one used to be pretty attractive.
    Hahahaha.

    Quote Originally Posted by Jem View Post
    Sounds like you've led a sheltered life, goat.
    What do you expect from a bionic goat?

    Quote Originally Posted by Expat View Post
    In 20 years you'll be saying, "mom i'm 40 leave me the fuck alone."


    Quote Originally Posted by Jem View Post
    Ahh - Ni vision .... Where would we be without it?
    In a world inhabited by Schwarzeneggers.

    Quote Originally Posted by Bionicgoat View Post
    that's hot.
    What do you not find hot?

    Although I have to admit, that is pretty hot.

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    Personally, I hate female Eights
    Personally, I hate you

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jem View Post
    Two friends of mine are 8s and one of them is quite attractive and the other one used to be pretty attractive. They're not girly, but the confidence about them isn't masculine either. I can post pics if you want.
    OK. They don't look very repulsive when SEE or ESI.

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