1. They aren't always these placid, calm individuals who make you cry with one perfectly executed comment.
2. They don't stand there dishing out orders directly. They may do this on occasion, just as they do the above once in a while, but it doesn't characterise base Se.
3. They're not people who attack you every minute of every day. Yes, they are confrontational. Yes, they are challenging. This is the nature of Se. But they do not insult you constantly.
4. They're not idiots who just want to "get the ball rolling" for the sake of it. There is method in making something happen. They may not well foresee events like strong Niists might, but they certainly know how to work with the materials or resources they have and create something with them.
5. They don't spend all of their time organising people and their strengths and weaknesses. Se leading people have downtime too, just like any normal human being.