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    Imagine two kindergarten age kids:


    Pretty much everyday...
    Boy: Do you like me?
    Girl: No, and I never will. Stop asking.
    Boy: If I stop asking will you like me?
    Girl: No!
    Boy: Why don't you like me?
    Girl: I just don't! And I'm not going to change my mind. I don't even want to play with you because you say stuff like that.
    And occasionally...
    Boy: Do you like this toy?
    Girl: Yeah, it's pretty cool.
    Boy: You can have it.
    Girl: Are you sure?
    Boy: Yeah.
    Girl: Thanks.
    Boy: Now do you like me?
    Girl: No! And I never will, even if you give me your toys. I don't even want it if you're going to say stuff like that.
    One time she told him that she hated him. After that the script went more like...
    Boy: Why do you hate me?
    Girl: I've already told you, I don't hate you. I just don't like you.
    Boy: But you said that you hate me.
    Girl: I was just annoyed. Sometimes you're even fun to play with, as long as you don't start saying stuff like that.

    And a few times...
    Boy: Do you think we're going to end up getting married when we grow up?
    Girl: No. Why would that happen? I told you I don't like you and I never will.

    This went on for years, if that makes a difference.



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    Anger management?

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    Anger? Wouldn't you be irritated if someone you didn't like asked you that every day?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy View Post
    Imagine two kindergarten age kids:


    Pretty much everyday...
    Boy: Do you like me?
    Girl: No, and I never will. Stop asking.
    Boy: If I stop asking will you like me?
    Girl: No!
    Boy: Why don't you like me?
    Girl: I just don't! And I'm not going to change my mind. I don't even want to play with you because you say stuff like that.
    And occasionally...
    Boy: Do you like this toy?
    Girl: Yeah, it's pretty cool.
    Boy: You can have it.
    Girl: Are you sure?
    Boy: Yeah.
    Girl: Thanks.
    Boy: Now do you like me?
    Girl: No! And I never will, even if you give me your toys. I don't even want it if you're going to say stuff like that.
    One time she told him that she hated him. After that the script went more like...
    Boy: Why do you hate me?
    Girl: I've already told you, I don't hate you. I just don't like you.
    Boy: But you said that you hate me.
    Girl: I was just annoyed. Sometimes you're even fun to play with, as long as you don't start saying stuff like that.

    And a few times...
    Boy: Do you think we're going to end up getting married when we grow up?
    Girl: No. Why would that happen? I told you I don't like you and I never will.

    This went on for years, if that makes a difference.



    What do you think?

    It sounds to me like the girl doesn't value Fi much, didn't care about the relationship with the boy just wanted to play. And the boy needed constant reassurance of their relationship, I don't know what that means with type... But since it went on for years, the girl still wanted a relationship with the boy afterall just didn't know how to "do it" in words. The boy sounds infatuated with the girl.

    my impressions....

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    Quote Originally Posted by glamourama View Post
    do all betas come off as angry to you or something? lol
    Blame my beta complex on my parents. In a word, yes.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dbmmama View Post
    It sounds to me like the girl doesn't value Fi much, didn't care about the relationship with the boy just wanted to play. And the boy needed constant reassurance of their relationship, I don't know what that means with type... But since it went on for years, the girl still wanted a relationship with the boy afterall just didn't know how to "do it" in words. The boy sounds infatuated with the girl.

    my impressions....

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    Whoa that's kinda interesting.

    Hey Joy did the girl actually want a relationship with the boy?

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    Quote Originally Posted by theMime. View Post
    Whoa that's kinda interesting.

    Hey Joy did the girl actually want a relationship with the boy?
    No. His mom babysat her a lot, so she had to spend a lot of time with him. She would not have chosen to be around him if it had been up to her, but probably only because he always said stuff like that to her.
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    omg, I just remembered a really important detail. This is how it started out most of the time...

    Boy: I like you.
    Girl: I know, you already told me that.
    Boy: Do you like me?
    Girl: No, and I never will. Stop asking.
    Boy: If I stop asking will you like me?
    Girl: No!
    Boy: Why don't you like me?
    Girl: I just don't! And I'm not going to change my mind. I don't even want to play with you because you say stuff like that.


    (and so on)
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    Quote Originally Posted by theMime. View Post
    The boy is ENTp and the girl is ISFp. haha.
    I'd say you're at least half right.
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    Wouldn't a SEI be more friendly to an ILE?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy View Post
    Wouldn't a SEI be more friendly to an ILE?
    i think so for sure! the boy does sound ILE though. i think the girl must be some logical type to say the things she did to the boy. she obviously didn't care about hurting his feelings on any level.

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    I was only joking of course.

    I really have no clue what types they are.

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    Oops. Bad joke. Sorry. I don't think of ENTps that way. Really.

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    This is an interesting kind of exchange for Kindergarten age children. That boy is really thinking down the road lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by munenori2 View Post
    This is an interesting kind of exchange for Kindergarten age children. That boy is really thinking down the road lol.
    lol, I'll say!

    But the thing is, when the girl was even younger, say pre-school age, she had a crush on a teenager from their church and said that she was going to marry him. The teenager had the same name as that boy, so maybe the boy thought she was talking about him and got the idea in his head because of that.
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    You know an awful lot about this girl Joy...
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    I can definitely relate to the position the girl was in. It's irritating when people put you on the spot like that.
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