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    Quote Originally Posted by LokiVanguard View Post
    Thats the damn point, we LOOK like we don't mean it when we say it in a normal calm tone, but we're SAYING the words. Obviously, we wouldn't bother to say "i'm pissed at that" if we weren't actually pissed. However us Fe deficient people wouldn't raise their voice, eyebrows, hands, anything, we'd just say it. Ie, look like I don't mean it, but reallty do.
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    Quote Originally Posted by chopin View Post
    People that are putting on Fe are so obvious it's laughable..
    I doubt that. We're just perceptive in that area. I have talked to a girl who has Fe role. She can't tell at all, and thinks I am offending her.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kamangir View Post
    I doubt that. We're just perceptive in that area. I have talked to a girl who has Fe role. She can't tell at all, and thinks I am offending her.
    thinks that you're putting it on?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kamangir View Post
    You're missing the point. If you sound cold when you say something, that is all that matters. I don't expect the Olympics from anyone. I just expect a person to not sound dead when you're talking about someone dying.
    No, you're missing the point. I'm TELLING you, to us, it does not matter. You're basically forcing US to be fake FOR YOU, which defeats this whole notion of being 'authentic', doesn't it? We'll say it however damn well we feel is 'sincere'. You can take it or leave it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by chopin View Post
    thinks that you're putting it on?
    I am obviously playing Fe. I told her that not putting 100% attention on the US flag was disrespectful and unpatriotic in the most up and down Fe voice you could imagine, and she got furious and told me that I was the unpatriotic one and how dare I say that and on and on. She isn't one of those patriotic types, but I offended her by telling such an obvious untruth.

    no, you're missing the point. I'm TELLING you, to us, it does not matter. You're basically forcing US to be fake FOR YOU, which defeats this whole notion of being 'authentic', doesn't it? We'll say it however damn well we feel is 'sincere'. You can take it or leave it.
    There is a social contract that you need to follow you fool. I know what I am talking about.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LokiVanguard View Post
    No, you're missing the point. I'm TELLING you, to us, it does not matter. You're basically forcing US to be fake FOR YOU, which defeats this whole notion of being 'authentic', doesn't it? We'll say it however damn well we feel is 'sincere'. You can take it or leave it.
    We're just saying you're going to unnecessary trouble - that's all.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kamangir View Post
    I am obviously playing Fe. I told her that not putting 100% attention on the US flag was disrespectful and unpatriotic in the most up and down Fe voice you could imagine, and she got furious and told me that I was the unpatriotic one and how dare I say that and on and on. She isn't one of those patriotic types, but I offended her by telling such an obvious untruth.
    =)
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    Quote Originally Posted by chopin View Post
    We're just saying you're going to unnecessary trouble - that's all.
    And this, people, us why we hate Fe.
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    I'd just like to lighten the atmosphere with a little Shakespeare: "To thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man." Corny, but true. There's always going to be misinterpretations somewhere along the line - at least you can keep them minimal by starting with an honest base. People have accused me of crying crocodile tears when I'm genuinely upset. So am I going to withhold my genuine reactions so as to convince these people? No. If they don't believe my reaction is genuine, then there's nothing I can do about it. That's how I see it anyway.
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    Quote Originally Posted by chopin View Post
    I'd just like to lighten the atmosphere with a little Shakespeare: "To thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man." Corny, but true. There's always going to be misinterpretations somewhere along the line - at least you can keep them minimal by starting with an honest base. People have accused me of crying crocodile tears when I'm genuinely upset. So am I going to withhold my genuine reactions so as to convince these people? No. If they don't believe my reaction is genuine, then there's nothing I can do about it. That's how I see it anyway.
    Well at least we agree on that. Wanna get some ice cream?
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    Quote Originally Posted by chopin View Post
    People that are putting on Fe are so obvious it's laughable.
    I find the need to put on "fake Fe" around some alpha groups. I know that it is what gets through to them so i use it. I suppose its not necessarily fake Fe because i do have it unconsciously strong but i am putting on a bit of an act. Generally it works with moderate - good affectiveness. Never excellent. EDIT: Ive just been invited to go to play boardgames at my friends house because an ENTp we used to know is back in town. I fucking hate board games, but im going to fake being happy because i know thats the right thing to do. And maybe i might have more fun than i think

    I think Fe types need to show the smiles and happies more because it displays to them the sense of closeness so important to humans. For example ISTj's dont value Fi and dont have it strong so to feel liked / loved etc they want someone to smile at them and laugh with them. Fi types on the other hand are a bit different. When you say something with strong Fi you can express a different kind of love to someone that is felt and valued by the Fi type. Neither is better than the other its just a different tool for achieving the same thing.

    One thing it says in the ENFp description ive read somewhere (i think its ricks) is that we dont like displaying over the top emotion. Like we cant jump in the air and say "yipeeeeee". We are kind of self contained with that type of thing comming out only every now and then.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LokiVanguard View Post
    Well at least we agree on that. Wanna get some ice cream?
    wahh yeah why not?
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    He won't laugh.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kamangir View Post
    He won't laugh.
    Not unless she goes YIPEEE!!!!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by LokiVanguard View Post
    Not unless she goes YIPEEE!!!!!!
    How's that for Fe?
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    Chopin make the yippee so he'll spill his ice cream. Then the long-held emotions will break the locks on his dam and he shall cry.

    And become SEI.
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    Quote Originally Posted by chopin View Post
    How's that for Fe?
    Love you
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    Quote Originally Posted by chopin View Post
    When you say you have to figure out how you feel about something, are you meaning that you have to think about how you should feel? I'm trying to understand what you're meaning here. :-)
    Chopin: Well, I have to reflect on how I actually do feel about the cat. The problem is, in the moment I know exactly how I "should" feel, or how that person wants me to feel, so sometimes that clouds what I actually do feel. I can tell how the person wants me to react in the moment. Then later, I'm like "wait, I didn't even meet that cat and I barely know this person and really, they should have taken it to the vet when it was sick.." and so on.

    LokiVG: FaFe, haha Is there a way to fake Fi? I can't think of any. But that'd be funny.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kamangir View Post
    Chopin make the yippee so he'll spill his ice cream. Then the long-held emotions will break the locks on his dam and he shall cry.

    And become SEI.
    But he would be a sad, shell of a SEI.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LokiVanguard View Post
    Love you
    <3<3<3<3 xxxxxxxxxxxx oooooooooooooooooooo !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    I feel alone all of a sudden.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jewels View Post
    Chopin: Well, I have to reflect on how I actually do feel about the cat. The problem is, in the moment I know exactly how I "should" feel, or how that person wants me to feel, so sometimes that clouds what I actually do feel. I can tell how the person wants me to react in the moment. Then later, I'm like "wait, I didn't even meet that cat and I barely know this person and really, they should have taken it to the vet when it was sick.." and so on.
    Lol - you didn't meet the cat. But yeah - I know what you're getting at.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kamangir View Post
    I feel alone all of a sudden.
    Who cares.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Winterpark View Post
    Who cares.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kamangir View Post
    I feel alone all of a sudden.
    Fe is understood btwn us though. But if you want me to spell it out ...
    <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 xxxxxxxxxxxxx ooooooooooooooooo
    w00t!!

    YIPPEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    ok guys <3 love heart.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jewels View Post
    LokiVG: FaFe, haha Is there a way to fake Fi? I can't think of any. But that'd be funny.
    Slimy guys?
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    Quote Originally Posted by meatburger View Post
    I find the need to put on "fake Fe" around some alpha groups. I know that it is what gets through to them so i use it. I suppose its not necessarily fake Fe because i do have it unconsciously strong but i am putting on a bit of an act. Generally it works with moderate - good affectiveness. Never excellent.
    I was just thinking that my brother does this sometimes (the ENFp one). No offense, but it's really obvious to me when he's putting on an act - probably amplified by the fact that I'm his sister - but still.... I'm like - 'Are you serious? Do you think they actually believe you're for real?' To me it's like a caricature. But some people seem to buy it ... so But he's young and inexperienced - I'm sure you're more mature about it. =)
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    Quote Originally Posted by LokiVanguard View Post
    Slimy guys?
    ah yes...and not so funny actually.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jewels View Post
    ah yes...and not so funny actually.
    yeah. I couldn't think of any other example. I fail.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LokiVanguard View Post
    yeah. I couldn't think of any other example. I fail.
    nah it was funny in a "totally get what you're saying way" lol. The "not funny" part was directed at the slime, but there was a tone of voice thing that obviously didn't come through...

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    Quote Originally Posted by jewels View Post
    nah it was funny in a "totally get what you're saying way" lol. The "not funny" part was directed at the slime, but there was a tone of voice thing that obviously didn't come through...


    had a fun friday night? did you Fe out?
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