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    How many of you have at least one person in your life who is your dual?


    How many of you have a significant other that is your dual?
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    Never met a female ENTp before, but I do know a male ENTp.

    We are friends.

    I think. Yeah we are. He's a tough cookie to talk to however.
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    I have a dual friend.

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    I had a dual in my life until the middle of last year, but we broke up. Currently, no duals in my life other than on this forum, where I love interacting with them.

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    My duals have typically been intimidated by me. I'm not all the easy to get along with at a close psychological distance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JRiddy View Post
    My duals have typically been intimidated by me. I'm not all the easy to get along with at a close psychological distance.
    Us ENTps always scare our duals away....


    maybe a saint is just a dead prick with a good publicist
    maybe tommorow's statues are insecure without their foes
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    My kind of New ISTp friend left for OS the other day. Just in the last week before he left he started to really like me, was cool. He said "nah man you always say whacky shit". I was like really... thats cool. So i started to ramp up the whacky shit even more lol.

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    My duals have typically been intimidated by me.
    I think sometimes my dual girls can be a bit by me aswell.
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    I have a dual friend. He's great. Hilarious. We don't talk a lot but every time we interact there's a really good feeling between us. Like we know that the other one appreciates our responses. It's pretty cool. He's married to his dual (my identical) and I really like her too. They're a very fun couple to hang out with!
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    I've had a few dual friends ( )

    I've had a few friends from every type that people commonly say are my "duals" - as they see me as a type other than LSE - and it is not nearly the same type of interaction.
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    Quote Originally Posted by anamericancer View Post
    I have a friend who is SEI.
    She's great. We have similar interests and get along really well. It never feels forced and we laugh all the time.
    What about your sister?
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    I almost only have dual friends. It's actually a bit eerie. The others are identicals, or supervisors.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Winterpark View Post
    What about your sister?
    I'm not sure if that was ever confirmed really. There were too many different opinions on her and it confused me.
    maybe a saint is just a dead prick with a good publicist
    maybe tommorow's statues are insecure without their foes
    go ask the frog what the scorpion knows

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    I friend with teh dual

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    I dated a dual, and have a couple others who are friends.

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    One of my oldest friends (in fact, I think my oldest friend) who is still a good friend today, is either an LSE or an LIE - my dual or my semi dual.

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    Quote Originally Posted by glamourama View Post
    I have a dual brother.

    never been involved romantically with a dual, but that's my fault, not theirs
    That must be nice, having a dual bro. How is it?

    Err... Beta STs are just sexy in every way, that's all. I have more than enough LSIs in my life, but SLEs? Nope. One relationship with an SLE ended in flames. Plenty of IEIs in my life too.

    I don't have any Gamma friends besides a couple of SEEs. This makes me doubt being SEE. I find that we are just naturally attracted to those in our quadra ... (obviously, haha) and without Socionics, this happens all the time. If I am not "drawing out" other Gammas, especially Gamma NTs, I highly doubt myself being a true SEE.


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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    I don't have any Gamma friends besides a couple of SEEs. This makes me doubt being SEE. I find that we are just naturally attracted to those in our quadra ... (obviously, haha) and without Socionics, this happens all the time. If I am not "drawing out" other Gammas, especially Gamma NTs, I highly doubt myself being a true SEE.

    how easy is it to draw out ILIs?

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    Quote Originally Posted by niffweed17 View Post
    how easy is it to draw out ILIs?
    Apparently she just did
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    I has dual mom, unkle, friend, and a former roommate who works in D.C. nowz.
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    If you don't have a dual in your life, go out there and find yourself one.
    "Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."

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    Quote Originally Posted by niffweed17 View Post
    how easy is it to draw out ILIs?
    Obviously not easy. But wouldn't you think SEEs would know how to do that best?


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    Quote Originally Posted by hkkmr View Post
    I've never interacted with my dual in a close or casual relationship.. I think I'm missing out. I think my best friend is ExE.

    I think I've hung out with my adjacent quadra most of my life and that's Beta who I happen to relate with quite well.
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    i was pretty much raised by beta (estp and enfj)

    my friends i see most often right now are beta (estp and enfj) (thats weird isn't it?)


    ive dated...entp, isfj...the other people i dated im not sure of their types, they were young anyhow. one was probably istp. one isfp..possibly...and uh...some sort of Ep back in 10th grade.



    i know no duals IRL friend or otherwise...but im getting fairly close with one and i will know one IRL hopefully by the end of may ;]
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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    If I am not "drawing out" other Gammas, especially Gamma NTs, I highly doubt myself being a true SEE.
    I actually had a relationship with an IEI girl. Well we were really attracted to each other but I don't know what happened with her after declaring her love for me all of a sudden she stopped replying to my txt messages and I've never seen her anymore.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dolphin View Post
    Denied.
    ?
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    Quote Originally Posted by dolphin View Post
    Denied is like a fancier way of saying rejected.
    Ah okay. It was a strange rejection though, given that just one week before she said she was in love with me. Anyway...
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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG View Post
    I actually had a relationship with an IEI girl. Well we were really attracted to each other but I don't know what happened with her after declaring her love for me all of a sudden she stopped replying to my txt messages and I've never seen her anymore.
    She may have had some serious intimacy issues... in the sense that she actually did feel what she expressed to you when you were together but then when she was alone that night she suddenly remembered the last time she felt that way... which led to her remembering how painful her last relationship had been, which made her fear that this new one would end the same way because in her mind she now couldn't conceive that anyone could actually love her for who she really was and she was afraid that once you found out who she really was you wouldn't love her either and the thought of going through this again was unbearable.
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    Quote Originally Posted by misutii
    which led to her remembering how painful her last relationship had been, which made her fear that this new one would end the same way because in her mind she now couldn't conceive that anyone could actually love her for who she really was and she was afraid that once you found out who she really was you wouldn't love her either and the thought of going through this again was unbearable.

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    Quote Originally Posted by misutii View Post
    She may have had some serious intimacy issues... in the sense that she actually did feel what she expressed to you when you were together but then when she was alone that night she suddenly remembered the last time she felt that way... which led to her remembering how painful her last relationship had been, which made her fear that this new one would end the same way because in her mind she now couldn't conceive that anyone could actually love her for who she really was and she was afraid that once you found out who she really was you wouldn't love her either and the thought of going through this again was unbearable.
    Yeah, I think she was an e-type sx 4w3.
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    Quote Originally Posted by misutii View Post
    She may have had some serious intimacy issues... in the sense that she actually did feel what she expressed to you when you were together but then when she was alone that night she suddenly remembered the last time she felt that way... which led to her remembering how painful her last relationship had been, which made her fear that this new one would end the same way because in her mind she now couldn't conceive that anyone could actually love her for who she really was and she was afraid that once you found out who she really was you wouldn't love her either and the thought of going through this again was unbearable.
    psssssssh what a bunch of wussy hogwash


    i'd probably like her anyhow, heheh
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    Quote Originally Posted by misutii View Post
    She may have had some serious intimacy issues... in the sense that she actually did feel what she expressed to you when you were together but then when she was alone that night she suddenly remembered the last time she felt that way... which led to her remembering how painful her last relationship had been, which made her fear that this new one would end the same way because in her mind she now couldn't conceive that anyone could actually love her for who she really was and she was afraid that once you found out who she really was you wouldn't love her either and the thought of going through this again was unbearable.
    What a nutjob.
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    I think the first relationship I was in was more than likely my Dual. I've dated a lot since and I've never came close to having that sort of relationship. It was very different from what i've experienced with other people. If it wasn't this "duality" nonsense, i doubt i'd still want to drop everything in a heartbeat and go back to seeing him again after so many years. Sometimes you just don't get over people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG View Post
    I actually had a relationship with an IEI girl. Well we were really attracted to each other but I don't know what happened with her after declaring her love for me all of a sudden she stopped replying to my txt messages and I've never seen her anymore.
    Do you know if she's alive? Maybe she got hit by a car and is lying in a coma somewhere?
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    My grandmother is ESE, and so is my step-mother, and so is my cousin. I have had plenty of ESE friends, some male, mostly female. The females have always been taken or unattractive or some other issue preventing a more intimate development.
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    that is what i was getting at. if there is an inescapable appropriation that is required in the act of understanding, this brings into question the validity of socionics in describing what is real, and hence stubborn contradictions that continue to plague me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by munenori2 View Post
    Do you know if she's alive? Maybe she got hit by a car and is lying in a coma somewhere?
    Don't bother.
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    that is what i was getting at. if there is an inescapable appropriation that is required in the act of understanding, this brings into question the validity of socionics in describing what is real, and hence stubborn contradictions that continue to plague me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mariano Rajoy View Post
    Don't bother.
    Do you mean that as in 'even were it true..." or "...making a joke about it"? I ask because I was actually being somewhat serious, as in if she just dropped off the face of the planet, then maybe something horribly unlikely happened.
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    Quote Originally Posted by munenori2 View Post
    Do you mean that as in 'even were it true..." or "...making a joke about it"? I ask because I was actually being somewhat serious, as in if she just dropped off the face of the planet, then maybe something horribly unlikely happened.
    fwiw, I'd be a little bit worried too if no one else had seen her either.
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    Quote Originally Posted by munenori2 View Post
    Do you know if she's alive? Maybe she got hit by a car and is lying in a coma somewhere?
    Yeah I'm sure she's alive, we've got a friend in common.
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    I probably hide from my dual. I hide from everyone. I like hiding. When I was a child I liked to hide under clothing racks (the circular ones). It's some complex I have. I like it when people make fun of me for hiding... it draws me out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Loki View Post
    I probably hide from my dual. I hide from everyone. I like hiding. When I was a child I liked to hide under clothing racks (the circular ones). It's some complex I have. I like it when people make fun of me for hiding... it draws me out.
    AHAAA me too!~
    esp. the racks that spun around (not sure they make them anymore)
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