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    Interesting. ISTp could be possible. I do believe she is Delta.

    This person is my sister by the way. For a long time I've been thinking she was INFj, but she's so hard for me to read. I guess I've always assumed that she was an ethical type. She has no interest in Socionics, or personality type things. I can't talk to her about it, let alone try to get her to take a test.

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    i was thinking possibly ESI, but from this relatively limited description SLI makes sense.

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    is she older or younger than you?

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    She's younger than me. Even though shes younger I feel like shes the older sister, and I'm pretty sure she'd agree. She's a lot more mature and responsible than I am. She's nicer than I am too.

    If it means anything, her only two female friends are ISFp and ISFj.
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    She seems like an EII to me, a really boring one.


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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    She seems like an EII to me, a really boring one.
    I didn't know INFjs came in that variety.

    The ones I know are far from boring.


    I wonder if everybody's boring to somebody.

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    Quote Originally Posted by theMime. View Post
    I didn't know INFjs came in that variety.

    The ones I know are far from boring.


    I wonder if everybody's boring to somebody.
    Perhaps it's vs. - both can count as fun, but if you get the wrong one, you're "boring."



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    An ENTj called me boring once. It was like a knife in my heart.
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    I don't know, I see her as pretty boring because she's not very deep on the outside, and impossible for me to read. I'm sure not everybody sees her that way, she's more open with her friends.

    She sees me as annoying, so we're even.

    She dresses like Juno, has the same body type, same brown hair, same walk, same mannerisms, similar face, except she doesn't have Juno's asshole personality. Definitly more kind and loving.

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    What type are you Starfall?
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    Quote Originally Posted by chopin View Post
    An ENTj called me boring once. It was like a knife in my heart.
    I think we've all got called boring at least one time in our lives, but it doesn't mean you are. When people call me boring its like I don't care, because well, I am.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chopin View Post
    What type are you Starfall?
    IEI

    Maybe my Fe annoys her. I criticize her on Fe related stuff quite a bit... boor girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    I think we've all got called boring at least one time in our lives, but it doesn't mean you are. When people call me boring its like I don't care, because well, I am.
    Yeah - it wouldn't bother me now. I was young and immature.
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    Maybe an ESI
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    I think ISFj

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    Ne-INFj.

    Starfall's description of her sister seems typical of how a Beta type perceives a Delta type.

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    i also felt on first read that it could be an ISFj, but yeah i guess ISTp could fit too.

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    I don't think that's an ISFj, contrary to the misconceptions people have about ISFjs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG
    Maybe an ESI.
    Agreed.

    I don't think SLI is possible, she seems too stable (rational), warm and kind.

    Maybe EII -Fi.

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    Quote Originally Posted by eunice View Post
    I don't think that's an ISFj, contrary to the misconceptions people have about ISFjs.
    Some ISFjs fit that descriptions, some others don't.
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    Quote Originally Posted by eunice View Post
    I don't think that's an ISFj, contrary to the misconceptions people have about ISFjs.
    I'm supprised you didn't catch on to the weak Ne.

    *Doesn't appear to know her talents or what talents she should be concentrating on
    *Describes herself as uninteresting
    *Doesn't appear to want to be interesting
    *Appears to others as not very clever

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    I could see someone describing an ISFj like that, and I could see someone describing an ISTp like that. It seems like you not being able to read her could be an Fe-ego type's impression of an ISTp. But it could very easily be an ISFj too, particularly because you said she's a hard worker. I agree that she has weak Ne, whatever type she is, but not necessarily unvalued Ne based on that description.
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    I really don't think that's an ESI


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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    She seems like an EII to me, a really boring one.
    TBQH I thought INFj was a possibility as well. She seems very self-deprecating (which isn't an EII characteristic in and of itself) and perhaps very unwilling to share her opinions. It's not that she doesn't have them, but probably more like she feels 'sharing' is forcing herself on the world or that she feels that kind of openness might open her open to investigation or that question which seems so self-negating, 'why?' If she cares as much about other people as you say, her fear of rejection by them might be enough to withdraw into her own thoughts, which can be a world sufficient for EII's ime.

    I used to pretty 'boring' like her when I was younger and didn't understand myself very well. I'm still that way to an extent today.
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    Quote Originally Posted by munenori2 View Post
    She seems very self-deprecating (which isn't an EII characteristic in and of itself)
    I wouldn't use that word to describe her at all. To me, it seems like she has absolutely no problems with her self esteem (were as I have lots of problems with it). She keeps all of her problems to herself. She also doesn't seem to have a problem with rejection, at least, not that I know of?

    Random: Her boyfriend is pretty smart and apparently has a very high IQ, and she likes that about him. She likes being able to ask him random stuff.

    I'll try to ask her questions, and have her read what I wrote to see what she thinks, It'll be difficult to catch her though... I tried to ask her yesterday and she straight up refused. I read it to my mom and she said it sounded just like her, except she didn't think she was boring.

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    I think you are right glamourama.

    Though, I just got her to take an online test and to my surprise she got ISFj. I'm just going to say IXFj for now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    I wouldn't use that word to describe her at all. To me, it seems like she has absolutely no problems with her self esteem (were as I have lots of problems with it). She keeps all of her problems to herself. She also doesn't seem to have a problem with rejection, at least, not that I know of?

    Random: Her boyfriend is pretty smart and apparently has a very high IQ, and she likes that about him. She likes being able to ask him random stuff.

    I'll try to ask her questions, and have her read what I wrote to see what she thinks, It'll be difficult to catch her though... I tried to ask her yesterday and she straight up refused. I read it to my mom and she said it sounded just like her, except she didn't think she was boring.
    Wouldn't she be offended by your description of her?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    Boring, bland, quiet, not interested in talking much. Not particularly intellectual. Not elegant, or expressive. Very private with her personal life. Will very, very rarely discuss her emotions with you. There is no emotion in her voice. She is very hard to read.

    When you ask this person a question about something they will always respond with "I don't know." no matter what the question is. If you press this person on answering your question they will get extremely annoyed with you, and block you out even more. She likes giving simple answers.

    Even though this person doesn't like talking about her emotions you can tell that she is quite ethical in her decision making and behavior, though this could easily be mistaken for logic. She's pretty mature and wise about things for her age. She is a hard worker and shes rarely into playing games. Shes not girly, though she is soft, and warm. She has more male friends than female, and it seems like not many girls really understand her.

    She's very kind and generous. There is not a mean or evil bone in her body. She will always be nice and polite to you, though I wouldn't particularly describe her as friendly. She does not give a damn about gossip, or backstabbing, or blackmailing others, she wont even think about it, and it is not interesting to her at all. She will worry about people when they are physically hurt. She doesn't conflict with people, and she doesn't like to press her views or feelings.

    She's in high school, and she wants go to collage to become an art teacher. She's not particularly talented in the art field, but she enjoys it anyway. She will work very hard on her paintings until they are finished. She is improving with her work, and she's quite naturally good with creating patterns. I personally think she should become a textile designer.

    Has a long distance boyfriend that shes been with for years. He used to live around here but he moved away, and this has not affected their relationship at all. They visit each other all the time, and she's serious about him. She's always on the phone, and seems to have an active social life. She doesn't really care what people think about her.

    She likes watching the history channel, and she gets good grades in her history classes without even trying. Her least favorites subjects are mathematics and Science. Her grades aren't bad at all, but she's not the smartest person on earth.


    This is what she wrote on her MySpace profile:


    She doesn't care if she comes off as stupid. Doesn't seem to care about making herself seem intelligent or witty.

    I find that no matter how hard I try, I can't be close to her. There seems to be this wall and barrier built up between us, and I find that depressing.

    She reminds me of Kyle from South Park.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Slacker Mom View Post
    I could see someone describing an ISFj like that, and I could see someone describing an ISTp like that. It seems like you not being able to read her could be an Fe-ego type's impression of an ISTp.
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    Quote Originally Posted by electric View Post
    I'm supprised you didn't catch on to the weak Ne.

    *Doesn't appear to know her talents or what talents she should be concentrating on
    *Describes herself as uninteresting
    *Doesn't appear to want to be interesting
    *Appears to others as not very clever
    I never see these as weak Ne. It's more related to an INFj imo.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclops View Post
    I think ISFj
    you HOPE it's ISFj. But it's probably ISTp anyway.
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    It seems like you not being able to read her could be an Fe-ego type's impression of an ISTp.
    heh heh That's exactly what my IEI friend says about my ex. "I just can't read him." Then she'll furrow her brow, concentrate, give up, and shake her head like she's mentally going "AAAAAAHH!! The frustration!"

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    Haha, its more difficult when it's your sister. I've known her my entire life and I still can't figure her out! I still love her more than anything, nothing will change that.

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