I thought I was 3w4 because I do need to achieve stuff, but I'm not as phsycho-obsessive as the 3w2 sounded. But now I kinda relate with 2w3 What's the difference anyway?
I do like to give love, but it's never entirely selfless. When I care about someone, I expect them to care about me as well. And I need to achieve things and I expect other people to achieve things. I am gladly willing to help them if I think they would be willing to help me in the future. It's not because I'm a horrible person who always expects something in return... I just think it's unproductive and unfair for me to waste energy on someone who wouldn't care enough about me to help me in the same situation.
But when I don't achieve anything, I get depressed and I need to have one goal after another. When one thing is achieved, I have a new huge goal within 3 days.
I never entirely understood the enneagram thing, so where do I put the border between 2 and 3 when I like to help others because my achievements often involve other people.