I'm finding I'm getting a lot of the cold shoulder, especially from members of other quadras, and from those who are particularly averse to me, in any given social situation. I'll often try to ease it and take a step back from domination of the conversation, but I still feel like people are threatened by me. I have two social modes: observer and dominator. It's really difficult for me to find a balance between the two; I have to control myself a lot, and it's straining. It's far more natural to either take a back seat or go full on - on or off. So when I'm off, people find me boring. When I'm on, people find me to be "too much"; someone they need to get away from. I suppose I'm getting better at finding a balance, but it's still a struggle. My natural atmosphere I'll rarely find and be content with.
Is this particularly evident in you (if you are an SLE) or people you know to be SLEs?