I think there's
compatability
and
attraction.
And they don't always line up...unfortunately.
Agree or disagree?
If you are compatible, wouldn't you therefore be attracted to each other?
D-SEI 9w1
This is me and my dual being scientific together
And also its quite possible to have a dual that is simply too unnattractive for you to consider for youself i think. I actually find the same with INFjs. We just want to argue about everything. It can be a little draining.
The INFj i went out with i could actually see us having a civil and compatible relationship for 5 years or perhaps longer. Its just i knew there was no real physical spark.
ENFp (Unsure of Subtype)
"And the day came when the risk it took to remain closed in a bud became more painful than the risk it took to blossom." - Anaïs Nin
maybe a saint is just a dead prick with a good publicist
maybe tommorow's statues are insecure without their foes
go ask the frog what the scorpion knows
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stating the obvious is fun.
ok i'll word it differently.
but be warned they are all obvious points:
point 1: sometimes we're more attracted to types other than our duals (like our mirrors)
pont 2: our duals are the types that are most psychologically compatable with us (according to socionics theory and a lot of personal accounts)
point 3: sometimes romantic relationships that aren't dual relationships are awesome
point 4: Socionis says that the best romantic pair is a dual pair but that's based solely on compatability and nothing else (like attraction). That's what I wanted to make clear but it's already clear.
make sense now?
No, I understood what you were literally saying.
But I didn't understand why you were saying it.
Like you said, "they are all obvious points" so I didn't get why you were
saying them in the first place.
They all seemed kind of "duh."
And you phrased them like
they were new theories that you had just discovered.
For example:
It's just... wow!
Brilliant discovery!
No offense, or anything.
maybe a saint is just a dead prick with a good publicist
maybe tommorow's statues are insecure without their foes
go ask the frog what the scorpion knows
maybe a saint is just a dead prick with a good publicist
maybe tommorow's statues are insecure without their foes
go ask the frog what the scorpion knows
maybe a saint is just a dead prick with a good publicist
maybe tommorow's statues are insecure without their foes
go ask the frog what the scorpion knows
Anamericancer stop being so mean to Mime! She made a small slip up no big issue.
I just met a cool INFj that likes playing computer games. FUCK man maybe i should just try to date one..
I hadn't read the actual Intertype relations description for quite a while but i just had a look and i must admit it almost perfectly describes my relation with my INFj friend.
This part i find the most disturbing
"Mirror relations usually lack warm atmosphere between partners."
Ive actually noticed this. I seem to have a cold detatchment to INFj's, while not minding to hang around them
ENFp (Unsure of Subtype)
"And the day came when the risk it took to remain closed in a bud became more painful than the risk it took to blossom." - Anaïs Nin
ughh.
I'm always the bully.
And I wasn't posting cause she slipped up...
I gave a smily face and said "tis okay, friend"
I was reacting to the the additional posts after
that that were seemingly pointless and
just irritating.
no big deal guys.
for some reason,
we just misinterpret everything each other says.
maybe a saint is just a dead prick with a good publicist
maybe tommorow's statues are insecure without their foes
go ask the frog what the scorpion knows