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    I'm trying to determine what's happening in a situation. Is Fe the source of loud and/or demonstrative emotion?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryene Astraelis View Post
    I'm trying to determine what's happening in a situation. Is Fe the source of loud and/or demonstrative emotion?
    it can be... but that's not all it's about by far. Fe can also be the source of calm and subtle emotion.

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    Ha. Yes, always. Sigh. Meh. Lol. What? Yes. No. Um. sklajdfoweifjeovneoij.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bionicgoat View Post
    it can be... but that's not all it's about by far. Fe can also be the source of calm and subtle emotion.
    ?

    @Loki: You seem to be having a good conversation with yourself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryene Astraelis View Post
    I'm trying to determine what's happening in a situation. Is Fe the source of loud and/or demonstrative emotion?
    is just the dynamically changing internal states. I hate the generalize it in such a way since it does not necessarily convey the truth to its utmost, but if it helps, think of it like an emotional version of .
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    Quote Originally Posted by Logos
    Fe is just the dynamically changing internal states.
    perfect. I was going to say "continuous external emotional flow," but it is, like you said, an internal function.

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    I just feel the is the way I express myself emotionally, when it comes to making friends, or acting "jumping of the walls" happy. It definitely reflects how you feel on the inside, but heh, you can fake Fe easily.

    Loud expressive emotion, curt, polite responses, all Fe.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Logos View Post
    is just the dynamically changing internal states. I hate the generalize it in such a way since it does not necessarily convey the truth to its utmost, but if it helps, think of it like an emotional version of .
    Quote Originally Posted by strrrng View Post
    perfect. I was going to say "continuous external emotional flow," but it is, like you said, an internal function.
    *blinks* And in English, that means?
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    Quote Originally Posted by dolphin View Post
    -agrees-

    If you guys don't hurry up with a translation, there might even be a waiting line.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryene Astraelis View Post
    *blinks* And in English, that means?
    1) If it is easier for you to conceptualize how works, then it becomes easier to understand how works. Just as you can watch the changing external actions (or dynamics) of objects in your surroundings in , you can also watch the changing internal qualities of of external objects. Or in other words, for how is normally experienced or encountered, you can watch how people's emotional states change.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Logos View Post
    1) If it is easier for you to conceptualize how works, then it becomes easier to understand how works. Just as you can watch the changing external actions (or dynamics) of objects in your surroundings in , you can also watch the changing internal qualities of of external objects. Or in other words, for how is normally experienced or encountered, you can watch how people's emotional states change.
    I actually have little to no idea how works.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Logos View Post
    1) If it is easier for you to conceptualize how works, then it becomes easier to understand how works. Just as you can watch the changing external actions (or dynamics) of objects in your surroundings in , you can also watch the changing internal qualities of of external objects. Or in other words, for how is normally experienced or encountered, you can watch how people's emotional states change.
    That was ilLUSTrious Logos. I fully understand the intricate workings of now.

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    I like .

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    Quote Originally Posted by dolphin View Post
    I think I sort of get it. Like, Ti valuers get tired of having to switch and readjust their entire system when lots of Te is floating around. I mean, of course that's a terrible description and quite vague, but I think now I sort of understand the annoyance Fi valuing types might experience when there's alot of Fe floating around, because I feel the same annoyance with Te........saaavy?
    Yes. One of the ways I was better able to understand Fi, was by understanding Ti's relationship with Te and then viewing it as analogous with Fi's relationship with Fe.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dolphin View Post
    I think I sort of get it. Like, Ti valuers get tired of having to switch and readjust their entire system when lots of Te is floating around. I mean, of course that's a terrible description and quite vague, but I think now I sort of understand the annoyance Fi valuing types might experience when there's alot of Fe floating around, because I feel the same annoyance with Te........saaavy?
    Hm. I brought this up because hyper, energetic people turn me off. As do hyper, energetic actions(ie someone rushing/throwing themselves at me). I was wondering if this was an anti-Fe sentiment on my part.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryene Astraelis
    *blinks* And in English, that means?
    by continuous external emotional interaction, or field, I mean literally a flow of energy. Fe focuses on this dynamic energy, trying to maintain and improve it. When skilled with Fe, one knows exactly how to manipulate this energy to any ends.

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    Quote Originally Posted by strrrng View Post
    by continuous external emotional interaction, or field, I mean literally a flow of energy. Fe focuses on this dynamic energy, trying to maintain and improve it. When skilled with Fe, one knows exactly how to manipulate this energy to any ends.
    I sorta get it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dolphin View Post
    Wait, you mean all hyper energetic people turn you off? Because I feel the same way about them too, sometimes. But sometimes they're really great and interesting. It just depends on how I'm feeling at the time....I wonder if it's really related to Fe...
    I agree, Alpha Fe really turns me off. Like they seem too wild for me, I'd like someone less like me and more grounded.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kamangir View Post
    I agree, Alpha Fe really turns me off. Like they seem too wild for me, I'd like someone less like me and more grounded.
    My mother (who tests ENFP on Keirsey) can weird me out at times. Some of you have seen me on here...I'm the straight man where she's concerned. The one who gets embarrassed when she's singing in public (though I find myself doing the same, but to me, it's not as disturbing). And the one who backs away when she comes at me energetically.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryene Astraelis View Post
    My mother (who tests ENFP on Keirsey) can weird me out at times. Some of you have seen me on here...I'm the straight man where she's concerned. The one who gets embarrassed when she's singing in public (though I find myself doing the same, but to me, it's not as disturbing). And the one who backs away when she comes at me energetically.
    Alphas weird me out overall, lol.

    ISFp=too emotional
    ESFj=Alpha Fe problem as stated above
    ENTp=The Fi PoLR really bothers me.
    INTj=I like them, but they like to argue.

    So really, you take what you get. Not much more you can do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dolphin View Post
    But, what is Alpha Fe? Are all those wild descriptions really true?
    And yes, they kinda are when it comes to this one ESFj girl I know who always wants to hug me. Her Fe really annoys me, like "I want to have a conversation with you without you jumping up and down like ME"

    sheesh.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kamangir View Post
    Alphas weird me out overall, lol.

    ISFp=too emotional
    ESFj=Alpha Fe problem as stated above
    ENTp=The Fi PoLR really bothers me.
    INTj=I like them, but they like to argue.

    So really, you take what you get. Not much more you can do.

    Do you have any idea what Socionics type your mom is?
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    Quote Originally Posted by dolphin
    But, what is Alpha Fe? Are all those wild descriptions really true?
    every single one of them, 100% true

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    Quote Originally Posted by Carla View Post
    No, they don't!
    yes they do!

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    Quote Originally Posted by dolphin
    Daaaaang.....
    lol jk...I mean, it's partially true cause alpha Fe is very light and fun-oriented, but for the most part it's bs

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    Quote Originally Posted by dolphin
    Whew. You had me worried there.
    well, I didn't reveal the scientifically-proven statistic that 98% of the slutty girls at my school are alpha SF....

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    Quote Originally Posted by strrrng View Post
    well, I didn't reveal the scientifically-proven statistic that 98% of the slutty girls at my school are alpha SF....
    That is major fail you know. I hate slutty people, especially when they are all open about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kamangir
    That is major fail you know. I hate slutty people, especially when they are all open about it.
    unfortunately, my scientific prowess only solidified what I've always known...

    it can be nasty, but if they're not open and not too slutty and of course, alpha SF, then it can be hot

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    Quote Originally Posted by dolphin
    ...
    what's that supposed to mean?
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    gay!
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    Quote Originally Posted by dolphin View Post
    I think I sort of get it. Like, Ti valuers get tired of having to switch and readjust their entire system when lots of Te is floating around. I mean, of course that's a terrible description and quite vague, but I think now I sort of understand the annoyance Fi valuing types might experience when there's alot of Fe floating around, because I feel the same annoyance with Te........saaavy?
    I think you summed it up perfectly.
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