I'm sure this has been posted before, probably a myriad number of times, but I wonder if it's ever been requested by an INFj male?
So here's the situation. I'm already one of the rarest types on the planet, and I'm male, making me probably about as common as hens teeth or a flying pig.
My question to the veterans of this board is, how does an INFj male go about finding and then attracting an ESTj female? Because hot damn, I want me one, and I'm not aggressive at all, quite shy really, so I need to draw their attention and then let them do all the work!
(If this has been posted before, please don't hesitate to tell me so I can avoid cluttering the forums up! I dislike starting new threads enough as it is!)