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    Default So who would like to VI this person...

    Just out of curiosity, any ideas on VI? I used to be besties with this girl, but we had a massive falling out after she made one too many demands and I, after a long time of backing down, stood up for myself (in a somewhat stupid manner, but then again I had no idea how to go about it at the time). She is VERY outgoing, but there's always that something under the surface I feel that just isn't right, like there's a lot more going on that she doesn't want people to see. Completely unreliable too, but very fun to be around. Any ideas?
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    moving to what's my type.

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    oh sorry, still a n00b
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    Perhaps ESFp.
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    i thought maybe ENFp. i don't know. i admit she seems like the sort of person i'd like to hang out with, no idea why.

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    I was thinking ES something.....possibly ESFJ by her personality, but I'm still pretty new at this. I'm guessing we would be horrendously incompatible in some way, given our massive falling out? Any ideas?
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    Well, how exactly was she so demanding? What kind of demands?
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    She puts me in mind of an ESFp buddy I have. Don't see her so much these days however, but she was like outwardly overtly confident and demanding but underneath tinged with a bit of, emotionial uncertainty, maybe even a little sadness, it was like 'no one really quite understands me..I'm not really like what people think'

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    I would not get along with her.

    ESF something.

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    I think I would get along with her very well. In bed, at least.
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    Junk in the trunk.
    "Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."

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    Quote Originally Posted by bee View Post
    Completely unreliable too, but very fun to be around.
    I find that contradictory. At least from my point of view. How can someone completely unreliable be very fun to be around? I would say, with only this one posed pic as material, that she is some kind of extroverted ethical type.

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    Hard to tell for sure just by that one pic, but there's strong Se in that one. Doesn't seem ISTj, though. So either 1) ESTp, 2) ESFp, 3) ISFj. Thinkin` ESTp, based on this limited info.

    Sometimes one photo doesn't capture dominant moods/functions, though, and then the typing can be wrong. One could be acting out-of-character in a pic, eg, or engaged in a task - ie, way of thinking that does not normally dominate their way of living.

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    Quote Originally Posted by XoX View Post
    I find that contradictory. At least from my point of view. How can someone completely unreliable be very fun to be around? I would say, with only this one posed pic as material, that she is some kind of extroverted ethical type.
    well someone can make a lot of funny jokes but ditch you at the end of the night.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Expat View Post
    Well, how exactly was she so demanding? What kind of demands?
    The easiest way of explaining it would be to simply put it down to her need to be the center of attention at all times.
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    More photos then?
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    She VI's like she's single and needs to come over this ways, probably a Scorpio.

    And an ESFp.
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    I tried to look for an unposed pic, but couldn't really find one! More pics...
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    Last edited by Khola; 02-27-2008 at 01:36 AM.
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    There you go
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    Nope, very much married! Although.....let's not go there.....
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    I'm now thinking ESFj rather than ESFp.
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    Quote Originally Posted by munenori2 View Post
    She VI's like she's single and needs to come over this ways, probably a Scorpio.

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    I think I might get along with her. She seems like she could be a good conversationalist.

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    I'll explain why I shifted from ESFp to ESFj.

    In the first picture, as others also noticed, she seemed to have strong Se, as per making a slightly provocative pose (even as she was also joking). In the others, however, I notice that a constant thing about her is a very personal taste in clothing and jewelry, and fingernail polish, which others might find a bit garish; she obviously likes small, pretty things. She also seems to be a "hugging" person and associate that with her Fe emotions.

    So in the other pictures I see far more Fe and Si than Se. So I'm thinking now ESFj. Also, the people she's with seem Alpha >>> Gamma, which makes ESFp even less likely.
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    What about an ENTp who uses Si and Fe a lot?

    or maybe even ISFp?

    she looks more like an irrational type than a rational type

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    However, "completely unreliable, but fun to be around" doesn't sound like an EJ or rationals generally. So, perhaps, the best overall fit is ISFp, even if she does seem to be "extroverted" in all the pictures.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dolphin View Post


    cmon, where's Carla's famous barfing emoticon when you need it??!?
    Why? What did you find so odd? I suck at so I may have made too much of it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hellothere View Post
    What about an ENTp who uses Si and Fe a lot?

    or maybe even ISFp?

    she looks more like an irrational type than a rational type
    I hadn't seen your post, sorry.

    Yeah, ISFp. As for ENTp who uses Si and Fe a lot -- in that case I'd expect her to come across as annoying.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dolphin View Post
    I guess I just have a problem with the "others might find a bit garish" "small pretty things" describing and "hugging person" describing . .
    It's not about their describing or .

    It's about this: who would even bother to select, buy, and put on all those detailed, small, pretty things she has on? Someone who doesn't care about ? Or someone who very much does? Of course, it could also be someone who is trying to achieve some effect, but in her case I don't think so.

    And who's more likely to take the initiative (as seems to be the case) in hugging a friend when a picture is being taken? Someone with no regard for ? Or someone who does feel confident in it?

    Again, it could even be a sign of PoLR if the hugging is seen as too out of place -- but in those pictures, I don't think so.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dolphin View Post
    Edited to add: Expat, am I annoying to rational EJ types like you? I'm sorry. I don't mean to be. This calls to mind something Mime said to you, like, "I apologize in advance if my gets on your nerves".
    It's not that. It's rather that I sometimes think that I am making an effort to be helpful, in giving my views about typing someone on request, and I give my analysis the way I see it - right or wrong. And it has happened, on occasion, that instead of someone saying "your analysis is wrong because of this and that", I get the reaction like, "how can you say that about type so-and-so and functions this-and-that?" which is what I do find annoying.
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    Ok, well, some more about her- She can run very hot and cold- she has a temper! Prone to crying at the drop of a hat- and I don't really think rational is a description that would fit her. She seems to always want to be closest to the people that treat her poorest- friends, family and love life included
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    Quote Originally Posted by bee View Post
    She seems to always want to be closest to the people that treat her poorest- friends, family and love life included
    maybe weak Fi? Or perhaps just Fe valued over Fi? or perhaps not related to Fi at all. sorry to be of no use

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    Quote Originally Posted by bee View Post
    Ok, well, some more about her- She can run very hot and cold- she has a temper! Prone to crying at the drop of a hat- and I don't really think rational is a description that would fit her. She seems to always want to be closest to the people that treat her poorest- friends, family and love life included
    Sounds like the archetypal Teh Crazy*

    Reminds me of someone I know** (by demeanor, poses, and dress/makeup/jewellery)

    * for the definition of Teh Crazy, refer to www.arstechnica.com

    ** and wish I didn't; long story, is probably an ESFp gold digger (the person I know, that is)
    XXXx <-- almost a beer

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    I'm getting an EXFj impression overall. How about ENFj?
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    I'm pretty sure she's S. She is a very touchy feely person and whenever she describes things, eg. being in the country, she explains that she likes it because she can feel the wind in her hair, look around at the greenery and blue skies, the fresh smell, etc- everything is sensation-based.
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    I really think she's ESF something, the only thing I can't seem to figure out is j or p?
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    ESFj is a rational type

    how well do the 'typical characteristics' fit here? http://wikisocion.org/en/index.php?t..._irrationality

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    Quote Originally Posted by bee View Post
    I really think she's ESF something, the only thing I can't seem to figure out is j or p?
    check out quadra values and go from there?

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