Hey, I'm new here, and I'm somewhere between these types. I'm 18 years old, male.
-My two best friends are INFP (on Myers Briggs). I also became fast friends with an ISFP (in elementary school), and I got along very well with an ENFP girl and I usually like ESTP/ISTP guys as long as they're easy to get along with.
-I would be a good politician, because I'm always smiling and waving at my classmates in school.
-This is how I learn:
-I like to get the general concept first. For example, in math, I want to
find out how an equation is derived, and then go into the computation.
-I like to start general, but I like to go very specific. When I'm doing problems, I want to be able to know exactly what I'm doing, and repeat the process until it I don't have to think about it. But until I reach that point, I keep questioning myself: Do I understand the logic behind the problem? How does that term in the equation come up, and what is it's significance?
-I notice when people are left out, and make sure that they feel they're part of the group.
-This is what happened recently: I got to know a really nice girl (probably ENFP). I talked to her about everything, except my most personal stuff (like my problems I was going thru with family, my frustration at poor grades). Several months have passed, and we seem to have drifted apart...and now I'm hating myself for closing myself off like that...
-This is when I'm happiest:
-When other people respect me.
-Relationships when they are working out, improving, just starting, everything.
-When relationships are not working out, I feel depressed and incompetent.
-When people don't like me, scorn me... I feel absolutely horrible.
This argument popped up with my family...
-I said I wanted to go to Cheesecake factory, but not the one next to our house, but one farther away in another city. I said I wanted to go there b/c I had good memories of my aunt a couple years back, but my parents said that that was a total waste of time and impractical. I got angry, and questioned why they couldn't even sacrifice a tiny bit of time for me...and yeah...
-I've had lots of spiritual moments, when I listen to inspirational music, I feel a strange sense of inner peace and unconditional love.
-I feel jealous when people who I'm close with don't spend as much time w with me compared to other people...like new friends that they hang out with more than me...unfortunately...I feel upset when people don't react positively to me.
-I tend to tell my parents of events last-minute because I'm not too excited at the prospect of being rejected...I don't like criticism.
-I find it really easy to laugh at myself.
-My most noticeable traits are generosity and agreeableness. I'll always lend someone money, help them out with something, and make sure everyone's having a good time, being nice to each other.
-My greatest weakness is that I forget to remember that the people who love me really do love me...and if I feel I'm being treated unfairly, I get excessively angry even though they mean the best. =(. I also get depressed when people ignore me / forget overlook me, and when I'm going through tough times, I just look to the future and I find it hard to be resilient and get back up right there and then.