on the wiki because its much too long to post here. it's almost entirely unedited. some of you may find it very long and uninteresting.
tbh there are elements of it which i am still uncomfortable with sharing with many of you. i was very seriously considering just throwing the whole thing away. however when i showed it to danielle she reported that much of it was interesting and informative, so i'll throw it out as a possible source of information for anyone interested.