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    Default How to attract SLE women? What is INFp-ESTp duality like?

    How do you attract ESTp chicks? How do you find them in the first place? How are relations between INFp and ESTp like usually?

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    Why I love LSEs:
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    A couple years ago I was put in charge of decorating the college for Valentine's Day. I made some gorgeous, fancy decorations from construction paper, glue, scissors, and imagination. Then I covered a couple cabinets with them. But my favorite was the diagram of a human heart I put up. So romantic!

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    Any takers? Any helpers? What about we hear from ESTp chicks themselves? Herzy? Anyone?

    Heheh dolphin I shall search for that thread.
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    Why I love LSEs:
    Quote Originally Posted by Abbie
    A couple years ago I was put in charge of decorating the college for Valentine's Day. I made some gorgeous, fancy decorations from construction paper, glue, scissors, and imagination. Then I covered a couple cabinets with them. But my favorite was the diagram of a human heart I put up. So romantic!

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBlueBlade View Post
    Any takers? Any helpers? What about we hear from ESTp chicks themselves? Herzy? Anyone?

    Heheh dolphin I shall search for that thread.
    I seem to remember Herzy saying something about INFp's grinning.

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    So how does an INFp grin relate to the question?

    It looks like no one is going to help.

    No one is interested

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    Why I love LSEs:
    Quote Originally Posted by Abbie
    A couple years ago I was put in charge of decorating the college for Valentine's Day. I made some gorgeous, fancy decorations from construction paper, glue, scissors, and imagination. Then I covered a couple cabinets with them. But my favorite was the diagram of a human heart I put up. So romantic!

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    Sadly Herzy is the only female ESTp on the board. Though poster ESTP may also be an ESTp.

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    answer: give off Fe. smiles. rapt attention without words. flatter their giant ego. make them come getcha.

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    I think Herzy mentioned that she noticed her INFp friend when he was being really cute. INFp's can be really goofy when having fun.

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    Hold on, I have a lot to say here, but I'm extremely busy until this weekend. So until then, you'll just have to wait in anticipation until I arrive.
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    Quote Originally Posted by glamourama View Post
    um yeah I think ESTP is a total SLE, haha

    and sunshine lively might be another also (: even if she isn't she should be an honorary SLE because she loves IEIs so much ^_^
    She might just be high.

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    Looks like I have to wait till the weekends...

    Wait in anti-cipation. Wtf is cipation?

    "answer: give off Fe. smiles. rapt attention without words. flatter their giant ego. make them come getcha." does this really work? It's so easy! But wait do you have to give off Fe to the crowd around you or just to them? *takes out Fe ray gun*

    Does flattering their egos really work? I've tried before, and she was touched, but didn't do anything after that.

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    Because everything
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    "Yes, it will be done."


    Why I love LSEs:
    Quote Originally Posted by Abbie
    A couple years ago I was put in charge of decorating the college for Valentine's Day. I made some gorgeous, fancy decorations from construction paper, glue, scissors, and imagination. Then I covered a couple cabinets with them. But my favorite was the diagram of a human heart I put up. So romantic!

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    2 more days to herzy's "Guide to ESTp Chicks"!

    Yay!

    Play with kittens (:
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    Because everything
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    "Yes, it will be done."


    Why I love LSEs:
    Quote Originally Posted by Abbie
    A couple years ago I was put in charge of decorating the college for Valentine's Day. I made some gorgeous, fancy decorations from construction paper, glue, scissors, and imagination. Then I covered a couple cabinets with them. But my favorite was the diagram of a human heart I put up. So romantic!

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    I eagerly bumpth this thread as it is the weekends already.

    Play with kittens (:
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    dreams larger
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    and does not
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    Because everything
    through her, and in her, is
    "Yes, it will be done."


    Why I love LSEs:
    Quote Originally Posted by Abbie
    A couple years ago I was put in charge of decorating the college for Valentine's Day. I made some gorgeous, fancy decorations from construction paper, glue, scissors, and imagination. Then I covered a couple cabinets with them. But my favorite was the diagram of a human heart I put up. So romantic!

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    Yeah I'm waiting tooo!
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    While we wait,

    we play with kittens (:
    She is wise
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    brighter than
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    lovelier than
    love
    dreams larger
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    and does not
    understand the
    meaning of no.
    Because everything
    through her, and in her, is
    "Yes, it will be done."


    Why I love LSEs:
    Quote Originally Posted by Abbie
    A couple years ago I was put in charge of decorating the college for Valentine's Day. I made some gorgeous, fancy decorations from construction paper, glue, scissors, and imagination. Then I covered a couple cabinets with them. But my favorite was the diagram of a human heart I put up. So romantic!

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    I don't think IEI need to do very much to attract ESTp.
    Just being around one should be sufficient.

    Looking at my life I realize that my "attracting" problem is one of exposure. I don't get much exposure. Sitting on my big butt all day long in front of the computer I have little chance of meeting an actual SLE. I do meet them on the net and in this domain... I think "doing something for them" actually works. Like searching the web and providing info... or showing them how to resize images for faster transfer using Irfanview.
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    Herzy, where art thou Herzy?
    Thy wild-grown hair like daffodils
    That waltzes with the summer wind
    Thy crescent smile like waxing moons
    That pardons me from hidden sin
    Thy piercing eyes like caustic lights
    That saves me from the death within
    Thy raging kiss like ember flames
    That melts my lips from shivering cold
    Thy dancing laugh like siren's song
    That penetrates this impervious soul
    Thy scarlet lips like crimson blood
    That mingles with this heart you stole
    Thy enrapturing breath that inspires me to poetry.
    She is wise
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    lovelier than
    love
    dreams larger
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    and does not
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    meaning of no.
    Because everything
    through her, and in her, is
    "Yes, it will be done."


    Why I love LSEs:
    Quote Originally Posted by Abbie
    A couple years ago I was put in charge of decorating the college for Valentine's Day. I made some gorgeous, fancy decorations from construction paper, glue, scissors, and imagination. Then I covered a couple cabinets with them. But my favorite was the diagram of a human heart I put up. So romantic!

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    Jeez guys, it's not even noon yet on Saturday where I am right now. I would've replied earlier, but I've been working on yearbook for the past 8 hours because my deadline is today. Hold on a minute!

    Alright, so my guide officially begins here. I'm going to have to put a disclaimer that I am only one SLE chick, and there are others out there that will have differing opinions. I'll do my best though to cover the full spectrum of this subject, though.

    First off, sigma just gave some sound advice up there, so definitely listen to him. The best thing you can do is expose yourself to lots of different people (and no, I don't mean whip out your dick to every passerby you come in contact with). Get off your ass and head out to town. Don't worry about bringing friends wherever you go, because you'll be more approachable without a swarm of bees around you. If you're at school, just do a bunch of different things with different people in different environments. You're bound to meet some SLE chicks somewhere. The good news is that SLEs are quite easy to talk to, assuming that you're not an annoying or smelly sack of shit.

    That was quite general advice, so now onto some specifics on getting you noticed and setting you apart from the crowd in a good way (this is where some differences might arise between SLEs).

    As for some general background info, most people don't stand out to me at all. As I said up there, I'm on yearbook committee at my school, and I have to do all this work with applying names to the people in candid pictures I took. The problem is, each person in each picture looked exactly like at least five other people in the same class, so I couldn't fucking tell any of them apart. Don't be one of those people! Do something to your looks that makes you stand out a bit in comparison to others. I'll admit, I used to be a rather average looking, long haired brunette, but that's no longer the case anymore. I chopped off a bunch of my hair and figured out how to give it a really awesome wave, grew a set of 36Ds (not my fault), and found makeup that makes my eyes really intense but without overdoing it. Now, I'm not suggesting that you as a male go get implants and put on makeup, but you should certainly find some feature of yours and exemplify it. For example, if you have cool hair, figure out some cut or length that works really well for you, and go for it. If you have a hot body because you excercise while scouting out SLE chicks, get clothes that fit well and show off your shape. You get the point here, but this is still extremely important.

    Another thing you MUST do in order to stand out to me is fish for eye contact. If you look at the floor every time I pass you, or dart your eyes away, I'm not going to bother with you. If I happen to be walking towards you in a hallway, and you give me intense eye contact, there's no way that I will forget you any time soon (assuming you're not ugly. Base requirement is that you're at least somewhat attractive). My brain will go !!! and I will probably think about bedding you for the rest of the day. I'll go out of my way to find you again so that I can get another rush in my brain. All you have to do is keep it up, and you'll be on your merry way, with me trying to get at you (and into your pants). and types tend to be best at this, I've noticed. In fact, several (at least three) IEIs have definately topped my list in terms of skill in this arena. You can be one of them too, if you practice. All I ask is that you are not creepy and stalker-ish when you do this. Don't be a Hugo. Oh yeah, and one last thing: if I avoid eye contact with you when you try, it means things aren't meant to be. This is more rare though.

    So here's a basic summary of what I've got so far:
    1) Get out and meet lots of people.
    2) Make yourself physically stand out in a good way.
    3) Make me remember you by holding intense eye contact.

    If you have any questions or things you want me to add, please ask!
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    Haha thanks Herzy. The highly anticipated guide is finally here! Now I can stop playing with kittens.
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    Why I love LSEs:
    Quote Originally Posted by Abbie
    A couple years ago I was put in charge of decorating the college for Valentine's Day. I made some gorgeous, fancy decorations from construction paper, glue, scissors, and imagination. Then I covered a couple cabinets with them. But my favorite was the diagram of a human heart I put up. So romantic!

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBlueBlade View Post
    Herzy, where art thou Herzy?
    Thy wild-grown hair like daffodils
    That waltzes with the summer wind
    Thy crescent smile like waxing moons
    That pardons me from hidden sin
    Thy piercing eyes like caustic lights
    That saves me from the death within
    Thy raging kiss like ember flames
    That melts my lips from shivering cold
    Thy dancing laugh like siren's song
    That penetrates this impervious soul
    Thy scarlet lips like crimson blood
    That mingles with this heart you stole
    Thy enrapturing breath that inspires me to poetry.
    *needs to find herself a poet*
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    Herzy, I think your post was good but that it can really apply and SHOULD apply to just about ANYONE, from any type, etc. etc.

    It's advice for the ages, woohoo.

    I was hoping for you SLEs to be a bit more, hm, specific? Like especially in terms of the little things that you in particular enjoy, ... your guide was quite generalized.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Loki View Post
    There's something really cute about this.

    The patient IEIs await the Se burst from one of the rare SLEs in the forum. They are very patient, able to wait long periods of time, calmly, for a reflection of them from the "one with the Se."
    Oh heavenly Se.

    It's like manna flowing from sunshowers whilst butterflies alight upon fields of cheese doodles.

    *swoon*

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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    Herzy, I think your post was good but that it can really apply and SHOULD apply to just about ANYONE, from any type, etc. etc.

    It's advice for the ages, woohoo.

    I was hoping for you SLEs to be a bit more, hm, specific? Like especially in terms of the little things that you in particular enjoy, ... your guide was quite generalized.
    Yeah, I sort of realized that when I wrote it. However, it's unavoidable, because if I get too detailed, I'll start saying things that only apply to some SLEs and not others. Another SLE might find the little things I enjoy repulsive, and vice versa. I'm now thinking that romantic behavior is much more tied to the individual than the type.

    Maybe if I know what types of specifics you all are looking for, I can elaborate on them, though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Herzy View Post
    Maybe if I know what types of specifics you all are looking for, I can elaborate on them, though.
    I think he's lazy and wants to know what kind of things can he do to trigger the Aggressor function in a prospective SLE female. Minimal effort... maximum benefit.
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    interesting that herzy is the only one identified to reply geez doesn't that put a lot of pressure on her?

    i'll say some stuff. what attracts me is somebody who is quiet and soulful. somebody who gives off a calm and slightly goofy mood. somebody who is positive, sees the positive in other people; somebody who doesn't get offended by black humor and irreverent jokes. somebody who digs deep and talks about what comes from the depths but then can turn it into something smooth and clear that unites everybody. somebody who can delicately and effortlessly handle people and the direction of the relationship. somebody who responds to giddyap. a person who can talk about and speculate on all kinds of interesting theories and ideas but then can let it go and have fun. and most of all somebody who appreciates the qualities that i have, even the dark side of them, and helps me be better.

    in short, somebody like an IEI. just be yourself man. if you build it she will come.

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    She's absolutely right about the eye contact. Works for making friends in general. I used to be so shy I would never make eye contact with anyone. Now that I'm older, I find that it's super super easy to make friends just by LOOKING at people and saying hello. Who would have thought???? If you're really interested in someone, watch them. Not in a creepy way. You can look away now and then. But they will notice, trust me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunshine Lively View Post
    interesting that herzy is the only one identified to reply geez doesn't that put a lot of pressure on her?
    She's ESTp, she can take it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Loki View Post
    What's interesting about the eye contact thing is that's what I do when I think I'm interested in someone... (or one of the things I do) It ends up being sort of automatic. But I imagine that would be something "everyone" does...
    yeah you're probably right that that's what most people would do. But I think that when I was really shy, my default was to look away.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunshine Lively View Post
    somebody who gives off a calm and slightly goofy mood. somebody who is positive, sees the positive in other people
    buying the domain name "optimism.ro" and placing and add for a wife qualifies as goofy and positive?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Herzy View Post
    Maybe if I know what types of specifics you all are looking for, I can elaborate on them, though.
    I notice that you mentioned "stand out" quite a bit, since people rarely stand out to you. What would you say stands out about INFp's?

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    Quote Originally Posted by sigma View Post
    buying the domain name "optimism.ro" and placing and add for a wife qualifies as goofy and positive?
    LOL yeah i'd say so for sure!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by emeye View Post
    She's ESTp, she can take it

    <3 Herzy
    yeah she def can, but as she says she's only one person...sample size way too small for generalizations.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Loki View Post
    What's interesting about the eye contact thing is that's what I do when I think I'm interested in someone... (or one of the things I do) It ends up being sort of automatic. But I imagine that would be something "everyone" does...
    I don't think everyone does it. Or, better said... not everyone does it the same.

    Eye lock is one of the more interesting things from this life I have. I imagine that other people do it in a very short form or maybe with an inquisitive directiveness.
    For me is either a glance or, if it is someone I like, something with deepness.
    For example, I remember certain looks where my entire being screamed "break contact" but the eyes refused to do it, hypnotized by the beauty. In these moments I feel somehow decoupled from reality. Like everything else disappears, even "Me", and all that remains is a holy communion of souls.
    "What is love?"
    "The total absence of fear," said the Master.
    "What is it we fear?"
    "Love," said the Master.

    I chose Love

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunshine Lively View Post
    yeah she def can, but as she says she's only one person...sample size way too small for generalizations.
    Ah, now you're talking about the accuracy and general applicability of Herzy's experiences. That is completely different matter, and indeed, limited due to sample size.

    I was referring to the pressure on her.
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    Quote Originally Posted by glamourama View Post
    I'll tend to want to ignore everything and just replay the moment in my head (:
    Some of those looks have been playing in my head for close to 15 years now.
    "What is love?"
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    Quote Originally Posted by sigma View Post
    Some of those looks have been playing in my head for close to 15 years now.
    Yup, me too. I got a look once from an ISTp that I will never forget. That was almost 20 years ago now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sigma View Post
    Some of those looks have been playing in my head for close to 15 years now.
    Tee! Now I will totally be going over all of my Hall of Fame Intense Eye Contact moments from the past all day!!

    I've been told it's sometimes like a laser-beam focus... So satisfying even when I just single out a really attractive guy I'm passing on the street and just fix him accompanied by a slight knowing smile. Few can resist the power!
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    eye contact is good..

    i haven't had any really good eye contact in a while..

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    Quote Originally Posted by mercutio View Post
    eye contact is good..

    i haven't had any really good eye contact in a while..
    *grabs mercutio and stares into his/her eyes* Sorry, couldn't resist.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryene Astraelis View Post
    *grabs mercutio and stares into his/her eyes* Sorry, couldn't resist.
    have you looked into his soul?
    "What is love?"
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    "Love," said the Master.

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    Quote Originally Posted by emeye View Post
    Ah, now you're talking about the accuracy and general applicability of Herzy's experiences. That is completely different matter, and indeed, limited due to sample size.

    I was referring to the pressure on her.
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