Things you enjoy/admire/like/respect about EIEs/ENFjs

[theMime.]

That's right. This is a brag thread. Talk about all the things you enjoy/admire/like/respect about ENFjs here. Anecdotes are welcome, as well as what you admire/enjoy/like/respect about the type in general. Ready? Set. GO!

[Mediator Kam]

They love sex, xD.

They make friends with their eyes closed, and are just very exciting and bubbly people to be around.

[Expat]

They're definitely not boring.

[theMime.]

They're definitely not boring.

AGREED!

[xyz]

They're great in very small amounts.

[UDP]

Like to give advice and warnings as best they can. Readily show their care.

[aestrivex]

they are the scourge of humanity

[lefty]

they are the scourge of humanity

fuck off, niffweed. youre more like a tubleweed with your banal commentary.

[Red Sky]

Well thanks, I feel so much more appreciated

*goes and grabs another glass of wine*

[lefty]

Well thanks, I feel so much more appreciated

*goes and grabs another glass of wine*

look what you've done, niffweed, you've turned red sky into an alcoholic. i hope you'll be accompanying him or her to AA meetings. gives a loud *HMPH* flips hair and storms off.

[Khola aka Bee]

I have an ex best friend who I'm pretty sure is ENFj. She is bright, loud, fashionable, worries WAY too much about what people think, controlling, moody, but infectious to be around. She's completely batty IMO, but I really miss her, 'coz she's also a lot of fun!

[Jimbean]

They have been the coolest girlfriends! They usually have a good work ethic and are also easy to get along with.

[Hot Scalding Gayser]

Their ability to make me laugh. I feel energized with them. ISTj is supposed to be my activity partner....but I think ENFjs are.

I only know one ISTj and we don't get along very well... =/

I could write like a whole book about how ISTjs are the 'bad tops' and ESTps are the 'good tops' but I'd be afraid an ISTj could kick my ass, cause I'm not denying they are stronger than me. Though me personally, I think you're a bit of a sissy having to use a gun. I'd want somebody to beat me up with their bare hands if they absolutely had to overpower me.

Note to self: Meet more ISTjs so you don't comically stereotype them.

But seriously, to me the negative things people say about ESTps- I think they're talking about ISTjs instead. *shrug*

[theMime.]

Omgsh.
So much to be said about ENFjs.
With the ones I know...
soooo kind hearted
empathetic
caring
always doing stuff for people
really deep...they always think about the things in life that matter
a complete pleasure to be around!!!!
Insanely good people skills.
Very driven.

[Angel Alliterator]

Well isn't it interesting? Seems like both ENFjs and 3s are disliked by some very vocal people....

I am screwed!

In the Typing (bizarro) World that is, IRL people usually love us.

Of course if one is a 3w4 SX/SP usually a strong reaction either way is brought upon.

[theMime.]

Well is isn't it interesting? Seems like both ENFjs and 3s are disliked by some very vocal people....

I am screwed!

In the Typing World that is, IRL people usually love us.

Of course if one is a 3w4 SX/SP is usually a strong reaction either way.

Yeah they're also liked by some very vocal people too. =)

[lefty]

Their ability to make me laugh. I feel energized with them. ISTj is supposed to be my activity partner....but I think ENFjs are.

I only know one ISTj and we don't get along very well... =/

I could write like a whole book about how ISTjs are the 'bad tops' and ESTps are the 'good tops' but I'd be afraid an ISTj could kick my ass, cause I'm not denying they are stronger than me. Though me personally, I think you're a bit of a sissy having to use a gun. I'd want somebody to beat me up with their bare hands if they absolutely had to overpower me.

now that would certainly be interesting to read about. i like that a lot actually as a big admirer of both types. i think its hot to use a weapon if neeed but, i have kind of a love hate relationship with authority and do see how the istj can need the ethical streak of the enfj which is shocking since they seem so good and so angelic on the outside. i admire the primary sensory qualities of both types. i find it very engaging in both types. obviously more powerfully so with istjs but estps also have me intrigued.

[lefty]

I have an ex best friend who I'm pretty sure is ENFj. She is bright, loud, fashionable, worries WAY too much about what people think, controlling, moody, but infectious to be around. She's completely batty IMO, but I really miss her, 'coz she's also a lot of fun!

my oldest best friend is an enfp and when we were children i found here really a lot of fun to know. we have had some differences in adulthood, but still very much admire eachother as people and only want the best for eachother. even though the advice we may have may not always suit the other at least we care and we really do attempt to give our best to eachother as friends....i've come to try to respect the way she can feel the need for distance in interacting by using photo sharing and things like that that are more up her alley.

i was suprised to see maria shriver at the obama convention in L.A. today...I think she's an ENFP and i think Obama's wife is an ISTJ, but even still idealism can maybe cross barrierers in quadrants where we still feel like we have some kind of common goal. I really like that idea.

[lefty]

Well isn't it interesting? Seems like both ENFjs and 3s are disliked by some very vocal people....

I am screwed!

In the Typing (bizarro) World that is, IRL people usually love us.

Of course if one is a 3w4 SX/SP usually a strong reaction either way is brought upon.

i read somewhere that if you make people think they're thinking they'll love you, but if you actually make them think they'll hate you and this is the fate, somewhat, for ENFJs in life, potentially. We're both compassionate and aggressive and we demand, sometimes, that people think about the implications of their actions.