Basically I’ve had more of an Ixxp response problem from IEIs than SEIs. Say you’re being asked out on a date or else to a friendly outing. I’ve known a few INFps whom I *know* like me and have been my friends for years, yet fail to respond. I have to badger them for weeks before they will respond, and we end up having a great time, etc.
My question for you is this: What have you found works on you in this regard….I assume calling is better than email, but let’s assume that you’re receiving emails from a friend who wants to meet up with you. What’s the best way to get you to respond?
actually.. one thing that has changed since learning socionics is that im not hesitant anymore to keep insisting or asking that they go with me somewhere. I would normally take a more "do you want to go" and them saying "i dont know" to mean they dont want to go and leave it at that. Now i think its no necessarily the case that you dont want to go if yousay that.