I've come to an important conclusion regarding our types. Although we approach type socially as a means of apprehending the world around us, type is also a means for our own self-defense; particularly the ego.
I just discussed with an ENFj how they were using routine to hide their emotions, effectively concealing their true self. The point of conducting the routine, of course, was to raise the excitement of people around them. Doing this allowed them to escape the troubled feelings they would have been reminded of from their past, had they used +Ne to actually analyze the -Fi emotion themselves....
Can other ENFjs cooberate?