Out of all the stereotypes that people have placed on the types(most types here have been stereotyped in one way or another), the ESFj stereotype really bothers me. I just don't get it. This socionics community believes that Fe=kissing hugging and cuddling. Don't you see that when you look at it like that, you aren't actually applying traits to it. What exactly about exerting emotions(which is what Fe is, hence extraverted feeling) gives any indication that Fe means those things.