This may be a fairly staightforward Si/Se + erotic roles aspect
But, betas, we know you like intensity and passion in relationships. But how do you feel about being very sweet to your significant other? What would "being sweet" to someone mean? Would you want someone to be sweet to you? Why or why not?
I'm not saying "sweet" as in "nice" - because of course everyone wants to be treated well.
I don't want to say "lovey dovey", or like the whole "smoopy smoopy" sienfeld thing.
I want to get some specifics on what about infantile/caregiver interactions are unappealing to beta's aggressor/victim ways - and here it from beta.
If we can figure out something concrete here, perhaps it can be a major indicator in terms of alpha/delta (si) vs beta/gamma quadras (se)
Talking with some gammas, it was clear as to why I am not gamma very easily based on how I really want to act in a relationship.