What are your perceptions? Though I love caregivers, they have this way of making me dependent on them which I really hate. They can make you feel as if you cannot take care of yourself (which is not true), and that they have to know everything that goes on in your life (at least I get this from the EJs). What makes this annoying is that if you do something out of the ordinary just for that reason, they act like you are doing something suspicious and you need to tell them a good answer...