I am an INFP male in college and I have such a crush on this ESTP gal... she is very hard to read and a lot of guys have told her so.. she says that she seems to think that the character descriptions for the astrological sign Gemini fit her pretty well because she says sometimes it seems like she has two personalities...i see her talking with a lot of guys (one on one) but i also get a sense that we both dont want to part from each other when we actually do talk and that we need each other when we are away and that she likes me a lot but doesnt show it at all... She says she has a boyfriend, but I get the sense that she is lying and some details she has disclosed have been inconsistent.
I think she may have had a hard time growing up.. she has also moved around a lot in highschool, because she would live with different relatives. She hasnt said so, but i think this may be because of her strict, traditional, Muslim parents who were born in the Middle East.. how do strict parents affect the personality type of an ESTP? especially coming from a culture that traditionally subjugates the role of the woman? Should I call her out on the boyfriend thing? should i do it very delicately? I read somewhere that ESTPs who have their spontaneous desires stifled go wild when given the freedom and become pornstars later in life.