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    Default Your mom wants to know why the net's so slow.

    With that being said, tell me what you think for a type for my friend. I'll try to stay relevent to things that might be at least somewhat indicative of a type. (I'm going to stick with a neutral gender in order to prevent biases.)

    Socially:

    -Has a relatively wide range of acquaintances; likes to befriend people of many different groups so that they don't get bored.
    -It's difficult for them to create deep friendships. Doesn't like to talk about personal problems or show vulnerability.
    -Has no problem doing stuff alone, both publically and privately.
    -Tends to experience rapid shifts in friendship circles. Usually, they'll have a new core group within a year or so.
    -Focuses on keeping people entertained and upbeat.
    -Finds it hard to just go up to someone and strike up a conversation, unless they are looking for something specific and tangible. Prefers things to flow naturally depending on the situation.
    -Likes big gatherings where everyone's included in on the fun.

    In Relationships:

    -Doesn't like to be tied down into a relationship.
    -Tends to be quite secretive about relationships, interests in people, etc. when asked.
    -Has a tendency to lead people on to get a sense of validation. Does this without realizing it.
    -Used to initiate relationships very often when younger, but got burned/rejected a lot (due to bad circumstances that no longer exist). Has been conditioned to have a "wait and see" attitude because of this.
    -Hates the thought of rejection, but can handle it fine if it actually happens.
    -Likes to be very physical with people, as long as it's known that the other person will reciprocate. Loves to roughhouse.
    -Prefers a no-strings-attached relationship for the most part.
    -Actively goes out of their way to not be clingy.
    -Has no idea how to respond when the other person comes on very strong, and talks about feelings / the state of the relationship. (This has happened several times to them, which you can tell pissed them off quite a bit.)
    -Likes sex for the conquest, rather than for the emotional aspect of it.

    General Personality & Preferances

    -Likes it when things aren't too serious and organized.
    -Constantly gets people to laugh, but often takes jokes too far without realizing it.
    -Gets depressed when things become routine; often riles people/things up when this happens.
    -Likes playing recreational sports, especially ones that are made up on the spot.
    -Constantly play-fights with their friends. They see this as a way of bonding.
    -After having a bad day, likes to drive around aimlessly for hours.
    -Becomes very happy when their friends are in a good mood.
    -Gets extremely restless when stuck in boring conversations.
    -Is a big atheist, but won't tell you unless you ask.
    -Hates TV and sitting around on the couch without applying any mental energy towards something.
    -Often, they'll have a really good week, month, or year. When this happens, they try to do everything they can to recreate the good experience.
    -Very realistic about life and the shit that comes with it.
    -Looks down on people who are drones of society, and who don't form their own thoughts for themselves.
    -Has a huge interest in human evolution and migration.
    -Loves to travel just for the experience and change of routine.
    -Hates learning about "pointless" things just for the sake of filling up class time.
    -Doesn't want extravagance; just wants to be happy.
    -Has an intense DeathStare. This sometimes prevents people from approaching them.


    With this mass of information, what do you all think a good type would be? Thanks for your responses.
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    from your information it sounds like you think he's SLE.

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    I read it and thought ENTp at first, but ESTp is a possibility. Ti subtype either way though.
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    What makes you say ESTp specifically? The things which may lean towards ESTp are the sex for conquest and the liking to rough house..... however I definitely like to do both. I like the conquest as long as no one gets hurt attitude, and definitely like rough housing as long as there is some sort of a mercy rule............... ooooo the takes jokes too far without realizing it that might also be ESTp.

    What makes me lean toward ENTp is the fact that they like big gathering where everyone is included on the fun. When I'm thinking about it being an ESTp it seems a lot like it would be Herzy herself. One of my best friends actually reminds me of Herzy quite a lot. One of the two though I think.
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    Does kind of sound SLE. Looks like they value Se, Ti, and Fe, tend to engage their energies with their outward environment (extraverted), and certainly doesn't seem to value Fi.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Diana
    Quote Originally Posted by Suomea
    What makes you say ESTp specifically? The things which may lean towards ESTp are the sex for conquest and the liking to rough house..... however I definitely like to do both. I like the conquest as long as no one gets hurt attitude, and definitely like rough housing as long as there is some sort of a mercy rule............... ooooo the takes jokes too far without realizing it that might also be ESTp.

    What makes me lean toward ENTp is the fact that they like big gathering where everyone is included on the fun. When I'm thinking about it being an ESTp it seems a lot like it would be Herzy herself. One of my best friends actually reminds me of Herzy quite a lot. One of the two though I think.
    Fe quadra Ep first, and then from there - being realistic about life, as well as being more physical rough-housing, not liking "pointless" things (which I realize ENTps probably would say they don't either, but ehh, they do)
    K, good point on the being realistic about life. ENTps normally have a sparkle of optimism I think. I think there are definitely better ways of deciding between the two though, mainly through quadra values and interaction. I think that ESTp-Ti is a good guess though. As for the liking pointless things I think the quote said not liking learning about pointless things which really could be either.
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    ESFp or ENFj to me.

    This person sounds very cool though. We'd get along well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Suomea
    When I'm thinking about it being an ESTp it seems a lot like it would be Herzy herself.
    That's because this profile is me.

    This person sounds very cool though. We'd get along well.
    Glad to hear it. :wink:
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    Quote Originally Posted by Herzy
    Quote Originally Posted by Suomea
    When I'm thinking about it being an ESTp it seems a lot like it would be Herzy herself.
    That's because this profile is me. :P
    Haha, figured as much. Have any ENTp-Ti friends?
    Suomea

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