I know a number of EIIs who find themselves in relationships with Se ego types. It is somewhat disappointing because in many situations the EII gets the raw end of the deal, but in return gets loyalty and possessiveness and a sense of security (?) from the Se type. It seems to play well in terms of the EII's natural empathy and tendency to be exploited and still deal with things anyways.
I know of:
LSI + EII (female)
SEE + EII (female)
ESI + EII (male)
The SEE + EII one is the worst, it seems, though the LSI + EII one is close behind. They are extremely faithful, the EIIs, but it is internally very disappointing for me to see someone who has so much to offer commit themselves to such bad situations.
Granted, EIIs are not exactly "the dominant force" in the relationship.
The only other EII couple I know (or remember right now) is LSE + EII (female), and they have a legendary relationship and family. Now obviously there is a lot more going on than mere socionics type here, for certain.
But I want to know if you have seen EIIs with Se types in general, and you have observe their relationships.